I would die for her without hesitation, trouble is, she doesn't view me more than her friend, she has not been in a relationship with the opposite sex as of yet (accept she has fallen in love with a guy online) thats over now, I am 25 years old and have been saving myself for her, women have asked me for dates n stuff but I can't see anyone but her, I make excuses to see her, Question is ( Have I got a chance with her) Please help me as I feel this is my last chance to be with her now that shes broken up with her bf online?.
2006-12-01 07:20:17 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My gosh...sounds complicated. Well, look, does she know what you feel for her? Because if she doesn't, then you don't have a chance. You have to tell her what you feel for her, but not so strong, or else she'll freak out. Coast, go steady. Calmly, lightly, ask for a date, and then...wait. Just wait until you two are comfortable enough around each other to call each other boyfriend and girlfriend.
2006-12-01 07:23:02 · answer #1 · answered by treerose810 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alright man, heres how it goes and you have to be open to other opinions and expiriences. It's almost never that best friends starting a relationship work. You're best friends for a reason and if you were meant for that person, the "best friends" title would never have been given to ya'll. Sorry dude but you aren't in luck with being together with her in an intimate relationship. You can try to tell her how you feel. But you have to go in there confident and expect the worst at the same time. Good luck and I hope for the best for you. Another thing that will get her attention is for you to hook up with another woman. Let her see it and note her reaction. Either of those can/may help. Again, good luck.
2006-12-01 15:28:40 · answer #2 · answered by Leadoff7 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She has not had relationship with anyone of the OPPOSITE sex yet? Has she had some with Same Sex?
Have you ever asked her out on a Real Date and told her how you feel? You have no clue then How she feels. You are 25, grow some cahones and see what there is to see, if not, Move on.
2006-12-01 15:23:39 · answer #3 · answered by onesmaartlady 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What in the world are you waiting on? Go for it! Don't talk about her online bf, that's a relationship killer. Let her know how you feel. Be her shoulder to cry on. Take her out, do stuff that will allow her see you as more friend material. But if it doesn't work out, don't be afraid to move on. Life is full of people-goodies. Go taste some!
2006-12-01 15:25:19 · answer #4 · answered by Ms. Mikki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you know her as well as you say you do you should know exactly how to get to her heart. Now is the time to make the move. Take her on a date that is all about her. Take her to the places she wants to go then go to a quiet and romantic spot and tell her how you feel. You have nothing to lose and everything to gain. If you don't take the chance you will regret it the rest of your life and it will cause problems with any future relationships you have.
2006-12-01 15:25:11 · answer #5 · answered by RayCATNG 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Oh for goodness sakes, let her have time to get over her ex bf first, before you tell her about your feeling towards her.
Her heart is broken, love is love wither on line or not.
Give her time before you tell her how you feel, just be a friend for now, unless she starts telling people shes ready for dating.All the best
2006-12-01 18:45:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well go for it enchanted things like this happen all the time. You have a chance when the guy messes up you will be right there. dont tell her now or she will run out of confusion as you will put her in an awkward spot and she will suspect you may have an agenda to break them up so just be there send her ecards how much you always appreciated her frienship and get to knw him as well. keep your freinds close your enemies closer.Also people on line they haven't met does ot count. How can it be? it's all words.Show her real man.. Go take her places.. dont attempt to kiss her or fondle her this will take time for her to reach out. Just go slow but get into the picture the real one NOW!! before she meets him and he turns out to hurt her
2006-12-01 15:28:31 · answer #7 · answered by gypsygirl731 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man, this is always a delicate situation. Problem is if you tell her will she feel the same, or say that she loves you like a brother. You can never know until you ask her or you send someone in as a spy. But that can be touchy because if she finds out she will think that you are cowardly. All I can say is good luck, and speaking from someone in your position, time is golden, drop hints and never lie.
2006-12-01 15:23:54 · answer #8 · answered by jazminestarhead 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You have to be up front with her if you want the relationship to work , you need to ask her out on a date . just ask her would you like to go out with me tonight a movie then some dinner, at dinner make sure you had stopped off at a jewelry store and since you know her so well buy her a really nice friendship ring with her birthstone and yours next to it . when you give it to her look at her straight into her eyes and say , you know (her name) we've been friends for so and so years and I don't know this but I've been in love with you since , you know when I awaken I see the sun shining but it still doesn't compare to the smile on my face when I first look at you . You are so beautiful the Sun and Moon have nothing on you , your beauty is what brings the color in the flowers , your smile brings the sparkle in my eyes , your beauty has to taken in sessions for you bring out the beauty in everything I see , I love you with all my being . Please give my love for you a chance and together we will bring joy to everything we say and do together as on .At the end of this, add this she will like this too ( I thank God he brought you into my life to make me whole and wiser then I look thank you Lord Amen,Amen )
2006-12-01 15:39:57 · answer #9 · answered by I'M JUST TRYING TO HELP YOU 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
How romantic is this this. Tell her how you feel, if she hasn't been with anyone except over the Internet she probably is waiting for you too. She chose the Internet because it is safe to her. No body no real feelings, understand? Your a real body that she can feel. Go for it and hope you have a happy ever after.
2006-12-01 15:25:08 · answer #10 · answered by Karen A 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋