girlz what would you if some girl was flirting with your boyfriend?

Answer 1

i would beat that b!tche$ @$$!!!

Answer 2

It would depend on what my boyfriend was doing in response to the flirting. If he flirted back, I might care..but only if he wasn't normally a flirt. But he if was typically flirty with girls and I knew it was innocent, then no worries.

But if he was outright flirting and didnt normally do that, I would have something to say about that. However, I wouldnt cause a big scene..simply because that can always blow up in your face. And not go your way, which would just make the situation worse.

I would either pull him aside and talk to him. Or wait and talk to him after.

Or if you want to play some dirty pool.....you could grab the closest cutest guy and pay it forward with some revenge flirting.

But honestly....I would just say it bugs you and go from there.

Answer 3

Well if he's allowing it to happen and it's been taken way too far out of context, then my problem is not with her it's with him. If he cares about you so much it shouldn't matter whether or not some trick is flirting with him or not. It can be disrespectful if it's done in your face and in that context, I would definitely put her in her place. However, if that's the case make sure you are not just jealous and are mixing up just being friendly with some broad after your man. Another thing, you need to find more security in your relationship and yourself because if he really cares about you and what you both have, this chick's flirting is going to mean nothing to him, which means you shouldn't be wasting your time on it...

Answer 4

i'd check first if he is answering or encouraging her flirting in any way. if he was, i'd have a discussion with him just to clear out why he is doing it and how that is affecting our relationship. second thing i'd do would be to find out why she has chosen to flirt with my guy instead of finding one who's available. it might be that the girl in question has some insecurity issues or, on the contrary, she believes she's irresistible and wants to prove that to everyone... also, she might just be recovering after a breakup or she wants to avenge for some pleasant experience she's gone through by breaking another couple... there are many reasons why a girl would flirt with a guy who's already involved, and my attitude towards that girl would depend greatly on the reason behind her behavior.

Answer 5

I would look the girl in the eye and say, "I found him attractive too and that's why we are together now" and take him by the arm and walk away. But don't say a word to him. If there is one thing a guy hates is a girl always on his back with jealousy. Most guys are really friendly and honestly don't want' to hurt another persons feelings but as for you....you just slapped her in the face without using your hand, just your mouth...only way to go.

Answer 6

I would have to say, wait and find out what he would do about it but in reality I know my man is sometimes to oblivious to the flirting and i have to say things like Did you think she was pretty? Or How did you not know that she was coming on to you? But instead of wanting to gouge her eyes out and put my foot up he behind so far she chokes on my toenail polish or rip her head off and spit down her neck. I would give her one of my looks that she would in no way, shape or form be able to mistaken me. If she ignored my look then I would have to embarrass her and my hubby and walk away. I am a Taurus and by nature i can be jealous. Sometimes I hate but sometimes I have reasons for it.

Answer 7

first of all girls will be girls and flirt its all about how secure you are if the guy is flirting back then its an issue but if he loves you he will cut it short before it even becomes an issue. We females are a bit emotional so we tend to want to jump to fighting but a secure woman will watch and observe how her man reacts to the flirting first but dont be a chicken head about it stay calm and handle it like a woman do something like kiss him or grab his butt let her know hes taken.

Answer 8

I wouldnt over react. Let him know how this makes you feel. I wouldnt feel insecure you know he is attractive and so does others. Its human nature for some to flirt if she gets out of hand and disrespect you then its time to talk. Still all the time being a lady.

Answer 9

I love it when my wife comes over and starts making out with me, that usually stops the other woman pretty quick. Or is it happening when you aren't around? Send him flowers at work if she is a co-worker. Show up all hot and stuff wherever they interact. Send him off with hickies (childish I know, but meh). Let her know he is taken and most importantly, all this attention will remind him he doesn't give a fat rat's behind if another woman likes/wants him.

Or spank her face.

Answer 10

Observe the situation. How is he reacting to it? If he enjoyed it, based on how much we both cared about each other and how long we had been together, I'd go the other way and drop him. If we had been together awhile and, especially if we were engaged or married, I pull him aside and ask him what the deal was. I'd remind him it was me he married / was engaged to, not every woman he saw.

Answer 11

If shes flirting to get a reaction don't give her one. She obviously want attention - and if my boyfriend (or in my case husband) wasn't flirting back I wouldn't care. Why would he want to be someone who has no respect for anyone or herself?