how do i flirt with with girls?

Question

give me good lines only

Answer 1

I don't like using "lines"; they sound phoney. Just talk with them about things you both like. Don't brag or come off as silly or macho. Be sincere, but not if you have to fake it. LISTEN to what they say, unless they jabber on and on about stuff that bores you, in which case, try to change the subject. If that doesn't work, the girl will probably continue to bore you. You should follow the same rule about not "hogging" the conversation.

Tell her what you really think (within reason), such as "You have beautiful eyes". But NOT "You have beautiful eyes, but your nose is kind of big"! THAT kind of honesty isn't necessary.

Sometimes, saying nothing, but just LOOKING at her intently is very effective! Just don't look crazed or anything! Good luck!

Answer 2

no such thing as a good line.

it all depends on the girl, the place, and the circumstance. What might be a good line for one girl, may not work for another. Similarly, what may work in a given circumstance on one girl, may not work on that same girl in a different circumstance.

It takes a lot of practice to come up with one liners. Just be confident and witty. Don't be too funny, because then you will be labeled as a comedian, and when you cannot make her laugh on subsequent dates, you will be dead in the water.

Confident, witty... and different. You have to stand out among the rest, especially if your target is very attractive. She probably has guys trying to come up with one-liners on her all day, everyday. Most girls are experts at ignoring and short-circuiting men's advances. So, if you can come up with something different and unique, to which she cannot reply, you are in.

Answer 3

Don't use preformulated lines! That is so cheesy, and it will never work. You just need to strike up a conversation. "Hi, I'm X, whats your name" accompanied by a firm handshake and a look into her eyes is a good start. Then offer to buy her a drink, or compliment something shes wearing, or whatever. If she doesn't seem to want to talk to you, just leave her alone. But act naturally. Guys with stupid lines get absolutely nowhere, at least after high school.

Answer 4

Boys flirt with girls. Men are up front, honest and rather direct with their intentions. Women want men...not boys (unless the girl is under age 16). One thing you need to understand is that, when you are flirting with a girl, she may enjoy it, she may even be highly attracted to you....but she will let you die of old age unless you initiate the relationship with her. The whole time you are doing this, she is wishing you were a real man. If you "flirt" with a girl for more than a short period of time, it tends to make her angry. That's why alot of guys start out with a girl going, gee, things are working pretty well, I'll ask her out soon....only to have her turn really cold later on and rebuff them.

The most effective way to do this is, of course, immediately. If a woman sees you notice her for the first time, and then immediately head directly toward her and then make it clear that you are interested in her as a woman, this sends a very strong message to her what type of man you are....the type of man she will be very motivated to make hers and no one elses.

Doing this can be complex or it can be as simple as walking right up to her and saying "I like you". Try it some time. This is not a line. This is you saying in the simplest way possible what your intent is. You talk with her as a normal person and ignore what anyone else thinks about it.

Basically, the first words out of your mouth convey the message that you are attracted to her, and want to be with her the way a man and a woman are together (you aren't interested in friendship). That means different things to different people and different situations. I mean, if you are at a fetish club, walking up to a girl and saying something like "You have a really nice body. I'd like you to come home with me and have sex" is perfectly acceptable and desirable...IN THAT SITUATION. Do that at a more normal situation and you can expect a negative response, unless there is something about the girl that isn't obvious (like she normally hangs out at the fetish club....or she wishes she did). In most normal situations, some version of I like you or I'm attracted to you or I think you are beautiful and I really want to know you....are all what you are after.

Upfront, honest with your intentions. But you know the rules. If you break them, you do so because you're the type of man who knows the rules don't apply to them....not because you are too stupid to know what they are. Only experience can help you tell the difference. But, just be being direct with her, you place yourself ahead of 90% of the guys in the world.

Answer 5

Just pick out who you like...from a distance stare at her with a interesting smile. If she smiles, give her a wave and see what she does after that. Go up to her and ask her does she have a boyfriend. Tell her that she looks like one of the celebrities or somebody that is nice looking to you. Just make the girl feel special.

Answer 6

just be yourself. girls can see through an act.

be witty and clever, and LISTEN to what she says. you'll get bonus "points" if you can put some action to what she says. for instance, if you have a bag of jelly beans and (in front of her) you pick out all of the black ones, because an hour ago she said she hates licorace... get the idea?

Answer 7

have your own unique sense of humor, and be sure to compliment that lucky lady once in a while, but at the same time, don't seem desperate. Have Fun :)

Answer 8

well, first before u start flirting you should seem very confident, and dont try too hard, girls likes guys who says nice things about them.. whatever her wardrobe is that day, her eyes etc....justy compliments. its works ;) good luck

Answer 9

i like your pants theyd look nice with me in them.


If i told you, you had a nice body would you hold it against me?


Can i buy you a drink, your looking hot in those jeans baby?

That shirt really brings out your eyes, your beautiful.

Can i call you sometime?

I 've lost my phone number can I have yours?

Answer 10

Don't "line them". Be yourself. Girls like that better.