so I go to college and my boyfriend is taking a year off and is working mornings. We see each other about one time a week, but we talk for at least 2 or 3 hours a day. he is the best man ever. what do you think about the long distance thing. we are 90 miles away.
2006-12-01 06:57:49 · 13 answers · asked by xstraight_edge_emo_kidx 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you guys really love each other you can make it work.
especially if you see him once a week.
if you stop seeing him completely, it might not.
2006-12-01 07:01:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
long distance relationships are very difficult. they seldom work... and the ones that do work, end up working because the distance ends up being shortened again. of course, there are the few exceptions out there that make it work like a charm, but very very rare.
if you really think he is the greatest guy ever, and it is only for a year, you should be okay....
by the way, 90 miles isn't very far.... I drive half of that to work in the morning. you should be fine for 1 year, if you are really in love.
2006-12-01 15:02:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
90 miles isn't very far away. My boyfriend lives 450 miles away from his parents yet he still finds a way to see them. Heck, I live 35 miles away from my school.... It is good that you all talk so much, but a move wouldn't be such a bad thing, if it becomes serious. If you really like the guy, maybe you should decide if it would help any. Hope this helps!
2006-12-01 15:01:16 · answer #3 · answered by Ashley_Nicole 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you love him, set him free, just joking. Seriously, any relationship long or short will work if you both do exactly that. Work at it. Keep in contact, make sure (if you can) to see each other often(when you can) and dedicate yourselves to making your relationship last. My wife and I were 5 states (long distance) for a year, before we married. Communication helps. Best of luck to you!
2006-12-01 15:04:14 · answer #4 · answered by dadknows 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you're already doing quite a bit. See each other when you can. Have phone sex (assuming you're having sex) to reinforce that you desire him and only him. That's about all I got on this one.
Wish I had more suggestions....
2006-12-01 15:00:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
90 miles isn't far at all.
2006-12-01 15:11:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey Babe, College girls are Skanks so follow in their footsteps, next time Girls Gone Wild comes around, do your thing.
2006-12-01 17:19:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
u may seem long distance
but u may feel him next 2 u
2006-12-01 15:02:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u love each other then it'll work out
2006-12-01 15:02:31 · answer #9 · answered by daytona_girl18 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is difficult ... but it worked for me.
2006-12-01 15:07:07 · answer #10 · answered by Tatty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋