we were going out over a year...a couple of months ago she started with the tired, headaches, female infections stuff. I started just dropping her off after dates, or leaving shortly thereafter and she was fine with it. we never used to do that. been dating a year but busy schedule doesn't alllow us to spend a ton of time together. gut tells me another guy has entered the picture. watcha think?
2006-12-01 06:56:53 · 41 answers · asked by keepingitgoing 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oh, this also coincides with her joining a private club near the coast.....where she tells me married guys get her number and call her. and drunk guys follow her home. i mean...this is an "exclusive" club.
2006-12-01 07:00:21 · update #1
Very likely.
2006-12-01 06:58:26 · answer #1 · answered by Leo F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it doesn't mean another guy was involved. She probably really did have a headache and those other things. If not a lot of times women don't want to have sex because of emotional issues that she feels she can't express with you. When you started just dropping her off after dates she probably got a little offended by that (even if she didn't show it). She more likely left you because there wasn't enough chemistry in the relationship and she felt she could do better without the weight. Sounds to me that the distance and the lack of affection tore you guys apart. I'm sorry :(
2006-12-01 07:05:05 · answer #2 · answered by TONYA P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stress can cause many of the syptoms you listed. If she really is busy and stressed out, then she probably wouldn't be in the mood.
Also, the fact that you two began growing apart could be the reason why she broke it off. Perhaps she has to many things going on and decided that a faultering relationship was something she could do without.
I suggest talking to her about it. Meet in person when you do so. It'll show your concern over the breakup and that you want to understand.
Whatever you do, don't accuse her of anything!!! It will only make matters worse between you, whether there is someone else or not.
2006-12-01 07:03:53 · answer #3 · answered by Ritz Grimarren 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably but not always she could just be bored with you. No offense honest....i was in a long relationship that just got tedious and i begged off sex for a while before I just said "F it im done"
I was tired of him and his attitude the whole deal.... but I never cheated it was just him i was tired of I did give him a chance to change! SO no not always another guy involved.
ADDITIONAL ANSWER
since she joined this "club"she could be feeling shes so hot that all these guys want her she'll do better then you blah blah ...some girls think that way she could be one of them....move on YOU can do better !
2006-12-01 07:01:19 · answer #4 · answered by Coyote 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES! but by no means should you blame yourself...there are a bunch of messed up chicks out there dude... you can be perfect in bed, have lots of money or even have a history together and it doesn't matter to them...
If you guys are young don't let it get you too down...I guarantee as soon as you start trying to better yourself..I hottie will take notice and you'll forget this ever happened...
Take care Playa! I know how you feel!
2006-12-01 07:03:36 · answer #5 · answered by Dave B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are still dating, but nothing else is different, then maybe it is time to just ask her what's up. You can guess and wonder and drive yourself goofy.
But you know that wondering and guessing isn't productive, and best go straight to her and ask.
If by some reason, it is another guy, then at least you know whether to move on and you two continue to be FRIENDS.
You are friends obiviously. Don't destroy that by being a jerk if it turns out it is another guy.
2006-12-01 07:06:34 · answer #6 · answered by Gnome 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok could be that maybe another guy was involved...but also, could be that she wasn't really focused in the relation and she was just hanging out with you just for the dates, dinners and so on... I know that there are girls that do that...and I as a woman... will never do that with someone...because that's like using someone to take you out whenever you feel like...that's too bad...sorry to read this kind of things...
You will find someone different soon... but this girl...OUT!
2006-12-01 07:02:30 · answer #7 · answered by Shalom R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whether there is or there isn't another guy involved, if your gut/instinct tells you there is, you should go on that. It doesn't sound like you're happy anyways so I would just move on. Tell her that things are not working out as you expected and maybe space is what you both need.
2006-12-01 07:01:40 · answer #8 · answered by NotoriousOne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you've already wasted enough time thinking about this girl. It was clearly never very serious anyway, so what's the difference? If you were really "meant to be" and wanted more from each other, you would have made more time somehow to be together. Move on, forget her, find someone you're more compatible with.
2006-12-01 07:00:54 · answer #9 · answered by Dr. Kat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may not even be one guy. Maybe she doesnt want a relationship anymore. All the attention she is getting is prolly very flattering and she wants to be single. Nothing wrong with that though. Move on and be happy with someone more commitment-minded. blessings.
2006-12-01 07:03:14 · answer #10 · answered by cheese food product 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe...she wanted out of the relationship and didn't want to tell you that. holding back sex a good way to get a guy to break up with you. Doesn't mean she has been with someone else tho.
2006-12-01 07:02:41 · answer #11 · answered by Niffer 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋