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I think I got a case of that yellow fever. Chinese, Korean, Japanese, Hong Kong, it seems like the only type of girl I check out nowadays.

Is it true that who you are sexually attracted to is out of your control?

I'm not being racist because I myself am white.

2006-12-01 06:25:35 · 9 answers · asked by twiztedweb 2 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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Technically, yes it's out of your control. There are a number of stimuli that impact attraction. The two "universal" attraction mechanisms are olfactory (how a person smells) and their facial symmetry.

However, since this seems to be a "sudden" change, it's more than likely psychological. Could be based on an unfullfilled fantasy, lack of success with women of other races, interest in a specific woman of the race your interested clouding interest in other races, etc.

If it is psychological, it's no big deal. While sexual attraction may be only women of asian decent, your overall physical attraction will change based on the situation your in. When you meet a really sweet, pretty and likeable girl, she will only become more sexually attractive as you get to know her... race notwithstanding :).

2006-12-01 06:36:13 · answer #1 · answered by Justin H 2 · 0 0

They do? Honestly i would've never known since i usually see a girl of ANY color asking if we think that white guys are attracted to her race/ethnic group. I'm dating a white guy at the moment and my preference of men is whites, asians and latinos. That is not to say i'll knock down the opportunity of being with a black guy but for the most part im not attracted to them. I still treat them with the respect they deserve though, like i would with anyone.

2016-05-23 08:13:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

The bottom line is you like what you like it has nothing to do with being racist. As long as you don't disrespect white women to please an Asian women, it is all good. At some point in your life you may develop a taste for white women or another flavor in the rainbow so to speak.

I go through these kind of phases too, but mine is more like I prefer this type of women over a period of time instead a full on being turned off or no longer being attracted to that race of women.

2006-12-01 06:41:27 · answer #3 · answered by BionicNahlege 5 · 0 0

youknow I believe you have no control over who you love and frankly this day and age no race sticks to the same anymore and it's fine. I don't think that it's written in stone anywhere where whites have to date whites and mexicans date mexicans but hey I am a white girl with 3 white children but that does'nt mean I don't find any other race to be beautiful. good luck honey.

2006-12-01 06:31:10 · answer #4 · answered by just lil ol' me 3 · 0 0

There is nothing wrong with your desire for an asian woman. Many of the asian ladies are beatiful and exotic. You are attracted to what you're attracted to. Don't fight that just go with it and find yourself a nice asian girl who is attracted to white men.

People have to let go of the "race" lines and just see people for what they are.... people.

2006-12-01 06:30:30 · answer #5 · answered by kyrie_eleison_gr 5 · 1 0

I think it's fine that you like women of other cultures. I've been in that boat myself in the past, and it's not at all bad.

2006-12-01 07:16:06 · answer #6 · answered by Mike M. 7 · 0 0

Hey man you do what you have to do if thats what you like thats what you like

2006-12-01 06:32:13 · answer #7 · answered by Lab Runner 5 · 1 0

i think its great you like asians more white girls for my black ***

2006-12-01 06:30:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

that's cool (:

i'm an asian girl myself

2006-12-01 06:28:06 · answer #9 · answered by Hello 1 · 0 0

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