My girlfriend and I have been seriously dating now for several years. I love her very much. She comes from a very difficult childhood situation, and while I don't know every detail, I know her mother was controlling and what I would consider emotionally abusive. I suspect her mother may suffer from some sort of emotional problem that caused her controlling behavior.
Occasionally we are over at her parents house for functions and her mother orders her around (i.e. ordering her to "Come!" when her presence is needed), tells her she eats "much", and every visit has a moment where the mother starts screaming about some trivial thing (i.e. a napkin not folded right)
My girlfriend won't stop going over as its rare and she does need time with her mother, but when I'm there my skin burns and I want to slap the mother for her cutting words and actions against my grilfriend. When we leave my girlfriend always cries.
What action do I have the right to take if any? How to support my girl?
2006-12-01
06:20:32
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