2006-12-01 06:18:54 · 32 answers · asked by soulfullilangel 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Most people here say never. I agree for the initial stages of a relationship..the first four dates or so..but after that...if the girl does not at least offer to pay some..I think its kind of wrong actually. If this is the new age of equality, I think a respectful girl would at least offer to pay some or maybe take turns after the relationship becomes serious. After all, guys are not made of money. I understand it is important to be a gentleman..but I also understand..that people can have limited budgets. Besides..not all dates have to be expensive..if you really like someone a walk in the park will be fun.
2006-12-01 06:31:42 · answer #1 · answered by Mav17 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
depends on the type of guys you date. Find an old fashioned dude that pays every time. some people, guys and girls alike are for this whole "equality" thing. some guys like this might have good intentions. but in my opinion their all pretty much just cheap. you should avoid these guys.
but thats just my opinion. if he isent whiling to pay at all. that means he is either cheap or poor.
that said, my finance pays most of the time. but im unemployed and broke. honestly i don't understand why she stays with me knowing my job history.
Once i have money i will pay pretty much all of the time
2006-12-01 06:24:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Every date why should men be put out on every date? I say it's high time the women pay then we will see how they feel when we won't give them a good night kiss.. HA
2006-12-01 06:21:41 · answer #3 · answered by Marshall Lee 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Not often at all, and sometimes even never. sometimes however if a guy forgets his wallet, or restaurant doesn't take credit card ...etc. But, besides for that: slim to none, however girls usually pay for a date if it is the guy's birthday.
2006-12-01 06:21:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think that it is problem if a girl pays for the date..if you have been with your man for a while then its fine..if you are just starting out dating someone then he should pay..it all depends
2006-12-01 06:23:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
As many times as they ask for a date.....unless otherwise really involved with the relationship then it becomes a mutual thing
2006-12-01 06:21:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I never do. If my b/f takes me out, he pays. BUT, I do cook for him a LOT (5 nights a week) and buy him things here and there that he doesn't ask for...so it kinda evens out I think.
2006-12-01 06:20:35 · answer #7 · answered by Niffer 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A gurl should NEVER have to pay for a date! if the guy isnt doing you right and asks you out but makes you pay.... then dump him!
2006-12-01 06:22:55 · answer #8 · answered by U dOnT kNo BoUt .:~LJ~:. 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Never the whole date but if she doesnt know him very well she could pay for her half or something!
2006-12-01 06:24:05 · answer #9 · answered by ♪ Jackielynn 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
A girl should pay for every date with cash or sex.
2006-12-01 06:21:11 · answer #10 · answered by superspiker69 3 · 2⤊ 2⤋