I have an boyfriend an i go off to school and he say he's getthing tired of me leaving him then coming back home. I love him o so much with all my heart and i'm pregant with his child but he dont like me to do notthin and he likei shoud be home with him but i'm not. he said he gone star doing what he want to do but i know he love me trust i know but i also know that so many females want him an they really dont like me but i really dont give an **** but ne way i love him to and he told me i need to hurry up and get done causes he tired of this phone relationship untill i come home .When i do come home he be wanting to kiss me , i mean i cant even go to the kitchen but he say he miss me .(we dont stay togetther i have my **** he has his) but when im done with school he want me to move in with him .I told him yes, I will and he said whould i marry him i told him i really dont know and he got mad. what should i do i mean im going to get done with school
2006-12-01 05:53:21 · 8 answers · asked by SexyBlack 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
stay in school because education is very important, your boyfriend seems very immature and insecure if cant deal with you wanting to go to school and having a life of your own, this relationship seems like its already in trouble due to your boyfriend wanting to have power and control in the relationship, the best thing you can do is finish your education and make sure you have all the support you need for this baby, if your boyfriend is like this now how is he going to be when the baby comes, he cant seem to deal with not getting any attention from you and you having your own life and babies require alot of attention, he needs some growing up to do before you decide to move in with him much less marry him.....
2006-12-01 06:09:57 · answer #1 · answered by MidnightSkies 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So if I can understand your issue, if that's what you want to call it. Your baby's father, who by the way, seems like a selfish ***, wants you to stop going to school and bettering yourself, because he misses you???? Now how is that right? You're going to have a kid with this, I won't even call him a man, and he's having issues with you being away at school?? What is the issue actually? That he's a selfish ***? You picked the wrong guy to have a child with? You actually want to marry this guy? You think he's going to get tired of you being away and mess around on your? Or the fact that he can't control your every move?
I say you move on with your life, continue your education and raise that child without him.................
But since I know you won't. Don't do anything. Finish school, don't listen to him talking smack about you not being there, and it'll end soon when you're done. You're doing the right thing for you and the baby and that's ALL that matters!!
2006-12-01 05:59:25 · answer #2 · answered by fedupwithu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This does not sound like a relationship of two loving people. I don't doubt that you love him, but if he TRUELY loves you and wants to marry you he would wait till the ends of the earth for you, not tell you that he's going to go do his own thing. Finishing school is important, and if it's important to you and he can't see that, then he doesn't really know you. Normally I would offer the suggestion to let the relationship go, because it sounds like it's been dying for a while, but you are carrying his child.
A guy who misses you when you go to the kitchen has some serious possesion issues, based off of what you've said. Here's something to think on, how divoted is he when he's with you? To me it sounds like a lot, and I have gone by the philosophy, "The more divoted, the more diseptive."
Question what is going to be best for you and the baby, if it means a life with out him, then so be it. But your life is no longer about just you. Your child is also going to be extermly dependent on you for everything till they are 18. Are you willing to spend at minum 18 years with a guy who might already be cheating on you? Let alone, vow to be with him for the rest of your life? If you aren't sure about marrying him, I HIGHLY recommend NOT moving in with him until you have made that decision for sure.
2006-12-01 06:05:04 · answer #3 · answered by djkristyleigh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly i dint get the story. but i think you should first finish school get a career and get a great job to take care of your child, and why is he moving in with you? do you think you will manage to take care of him and you child? think of all this before you make such a big decision.
2006-12-01 06:01:30 · answer #4 · answered by Obria 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to me....DO NOT GIVE UP SCHOOL FOR THIS GUY!!
you're having a baby together, you need your education, does he go to school, work?? or is it all you?
please do not give up school for him i beg you.
2006-12-01 05:58:11 · answer #5 · answered by jade317877 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
huh? What??
You definitely need to stay in school.
2006-12-01 05:55:29 · answer #6 · answered by sassybree1979 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
stay in school!!! you sure do need it!
2006-12-01 05:57:05 · answer #7 · answered by sea_star 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
LAEVE UPTO GOD
2006-12-01 05:56:37 · answer #8 · answered by alone l 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋