It matters whats going in the heart of the individual..So if a married man or woman masturbates while thinking of each other is that wrong. There are time when couple cant be together for whatever reason...Is this ok or no?
2006-12-01 05:43:21 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
What do you think? God wants a husband and wife to pleasure each other, and shows them how. We arent to self pleasure. and once that begins ppl get more and more in only pleasing self and it leads to much destruction, this is why God talks about this like He does.
Instead of always wanting to be sure you have pleasure, spend more time knowing how to pleasure your wife, and to give good healthy love and joy to others around you. Just being a decent person that cares about others. SELF is what made the devil fall from heaven. SElf and pride..... just read what God says and then you will know JUST What He says, dont let others tell you. He only takes away things that lead to destruction.
I think you already know its wrong from other questions you ask, you seemingly want to irritate Christians with your questions. But, if that is not so, forgive me. I dont judge you, I just see things that God shows me. Christians who write hatred to you arent true Christians. They need to take pity on you and pray that will seek God before its too late. Jesus is the only way. He calls us to purity and rightouesness and holy living, and He is coming soon, so choose soon and choose wisely.
2006-12-01 05:56:10 · answer #1 · answered by full gospel shirley 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I believe it's OK. I am not married but I know lot of married guys lust when they see beautiful Girl or women or even picture of a beautiful girl. I think it's better masturbate thinking of spouse or even someone else than sleeping with someone other than ur spouse.
2006-12-01 05:53:37 · answer #2 · answered by Toronto boy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not at all. In fact, most of my fantasies when engaged in that sort of thing are about my wife, even though she is in the bed with me every night. Sexual fantasies are just that... fantasies.
What young man or woman hasn't idly whiled away some time wondering what it would be spend quality time with a celebrity? Sure, we know it will likely never happen, but there's nothing wrong with imagining it. The same goes for your sexual fantasies. As long as you aren't acting on them, what you imagine is your business and no one else's.
2006-12-01 05:46:17 · answer #3 · answered by whtknt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm good question to ponder. The bible does not directly condem masturabation, it does condem fornication, and lust. The bible also says if you think about doing something wrong well you are just as guilty if you actually do it. So I see nothing wrong with husband-wife masturbation, and thinking soley of each other. Because you are thinking of each other, so it is as good as doing it with each other. Oh you will get the ones that say sex was created by God, for husband and wifes to be fruitful. But God does not want us tempted by other. So would this be wrong in His eyes. Perhaps not, I do not think He will condem you to the lake of fire for it though. God knows humans are lustful, so I say go ahead lust for your husbands/wifes, God gave them to you to avoid unmarried sexual fornication.
2006-12-01 05:53:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Masturbation is never really mentioned in the bible. I don't see a problem with it as long as it keeps you from doing other things. It's not wrong to lust about your spouse.
2006-12-01 05:45:54 · answer #5 · answered by David 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No. In Catholicism, it is perfectly acceptable to masturbate to your thought of your spouse.
The unnatural thoughts about your sister is whats a sin.
2006-12-01 05:48:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try thinking of someone else, variety is the spice of life
2006-12-01 05:55:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't matter what u think of when masturbating -- it's all ok (as long as it aint pedophilia, of course)
2006-12-01 05:44:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Masterbation is a gift... use it!
No... I don't think that masterbating while thinking of your spouse is wrong... not in the least.
2006-12-01 05:46:45 · answer #9 · answered by Mikisew 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that it should be ok as long as the other one knows that you are doing it. If your sneaking around... that is definetly not right. They don't have to know if you when you are doing it as long as they know that it is gonig on.
2006-12-01 05:47:22 · answer #10 · answered by Amy_S 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋