It was mostly work related. I had been under the gun working long hours....and her thing has always been "so what, everyone has issues, you make it work." She says all of my actions point to not wanting her to be the one, and that it hurts her too much to make me her primary focus. I apologized and tried to explain to no avail 7 days ago but have purposely let her be. should i wait another few weeks to contact her. i know the 30 day rule stuff...but still want to hear it outside of the "textbook" There are no other women involved...none of that stuff. just a demanding career with long hours and stress....but not THAT bad imo. it's a competetive world, gotta do what you gotta do.
2006-12-01 05:41:45 · 7 answers · asked by keepingitgoing 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Whats a 30 day rule?
She misses you while your at work, maybe she needs a demanding job to keep her mind busy, ask her to support you in your job..or maybe yous can have lunch together at work if need be, try making time for her and such...good luck sorry your going through such a rough time.
2006-12-01 05:54:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she was The One, you would find the time to make her important or at the very least, find ways to SHOW her that she was important. Ending a relationship is very difficult but you might want to face the facts that she is right. You didn't show her that she was important enough and now it's over. Have you ever seen the movie Family Man with Teah Leone and Nicholas Cage?
Actions speak louder than words and if your actions have been showing her that your job is all that's important, than this relationship shouldn't be mended. If you think I'm wrong and she is THE ONE, don't apologize anymore, do something drastic to show her how wrong you've been and what you're going to do differently from here on out.
Either way, good luck!!
2006-12-01 13:47:30 · answer #2 · answered by fedupwithu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do not need to wait 30 days. If the problem was the fact you did not have time for her you need to go talk to her and make time for her. Not wait and see how long it takes for another man to hit on her.
2006-12-01 13:45:02 · answer #3 · answered by Venus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry your sad but her breakup sounds like a blessing in disguise. Your a hard worker, your dedicated to your job, your making money and she's not happy with this???!!! Doesn't she know how lucky she is to have a man like you? She's not worth your time. Do not call her in 30 days, do not call her in 7 days, do not call her ever. In time, you will meet someone who respects, appreciates and supports your work ethics. Good luck and I hope my honesty hasn't offended you.
2006-12-01 13:52:31 · answer #4 · answered by eightieschic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHY WAIT? YOU MAY LOSE HER IF YOU DON'T SHOW INTEREST. HER ANGER IS PROBABLY OVER NOW, I'D CALL AND TRY TO EXPLAIN TO HER HOW YOU FEEL. DON'T WAIT TOO LONG YOU MAY REGRET IT, THAT COULD SEND HER THE MESSAGE YOUR NO LONGER INTERESTED.
FOLLOW YOUR HEART, ITS NOT WRONG.
2006-12-01 13:47:54 · answer #5 · answered by celestialangel43 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no bug her for a month tell her how much u miss her and if nothing then ur gonna have to forget about her
2006-12-01 14:19:46 · answer #6 · answered by nena 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try giving her a call and see what happens
2006-12-01 13:45:28 · answer #7 · answered by sunbun 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋