hello everyone.i am a member of yahoo answers for the past 2 months and the 'Singles and Dating'is my favourite section.i read almost all the quesions and answer some of them.guys in this section ask a variety of questions like 'how do i propose to a girl?','how to impress/attract a girl towards me?','how do i tell a girl that i like her and have feelings for her?'etc.People from all over the world answer these questions and frankly some answers are really good.however i feel this takes away the naturality and originality.look i am not saying answering questions is wrong but i feel people who ask questions should try their best to make their own solutions and turn to yahoo answers only when their effort is in vain. otherwise we might have a situation when a guy feels 'ok i like this girl,now let me ask people from yahoo answers how to woo her' so do u guys agree when i feel we should apply our natural instincts in dealing with situations and take yahoo answers help when unsuccessful.
2006-12-01 05:31:12 · 24 answers · asked by Survive_each_Session 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
MY DEAR FIREND
WHAT'S THE HARM IN JUST GIVING OUR OPINION OR POINT OF VIEW ?
LET THAT PERSON DECIDE WHETHER TO ACT ON THE SUGGESTION MADE BY OTHERS OR TO TO GET HIS TOP FLOOR WORK A LITTLE BIT
YOU ARE RIGHT,HOW LONG CAN YOU HELP SOMEBODY ,THEY HAVE TO MOVE ON THEMSEVES ONLY
GOOD THOUGHT
2006-12-01 05:43:13 · answer #1 · answered by aluminiumengineers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing I agree to, is to disagree. Tell me, if you read a book and find that the author’s views etc are not exactly on par with yours. Would you make that particular author your favourite author and spend time on reading all his / her books??? It does not make sense just like you are not making sense here. How have you assumed that people have not tried to deal with their situations before posting a question here? How can you suggest that we should seek help only when unsuccessful? First of all not all situations give you a second chance and secondly some people like myself don’t wait to be unsuccessful. I can assure you that 99.9% of the people will pick up only the cream from suggestions made here. You aught to know that most people will listen to everyone but will reserve their own judgment and ultimately do what they have to do. Yahoo Answers is a lovely way of making people of all ages, nationalities etc., etc. interact with each other and the spirit in which this is going on is amazingly beautiful and should just go on.
2006-12-01 08:17:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's so wrong with someone legitimately seeking advice? Isn't it natural to seek counsel when you don't fully understand something?
There's a lot to be said for having talent and instinct/intellect for problem solving, however:
1) Not everyone has those attributes.
2) Not everyone trusts what they have.
One group of people on here really don't have the foggiest idea which way to turn.
Another is just checking themselves - either actions they've already taken, or are considering.
A third reads to judge others.
A fourth reads to learn from others.
There is real sharing of ideas and learning going on. Originality doesn't matter, when you're in a jam. What works, works.
There's room here for everybody.
2006-12-01 05:45:55 · answer #3 · answered by peter n 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi, Siddharth. I support your views in this regard. But I want to say that the youngsters with less experience desire to get instant answers for their quiries through Yahoo! Answers since this is an open forum that facilitates such a kind of service. Younger members with higher emotions want to know what others feel about their problems. Some take this as a pastime. When we surrender ourselves to our instincts, we go intellectually bankrupt.
2006-12-08 05:39:58 · answer #4 · answered by SRIRANGAM G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what you're saying but I don't think there is anything wrong with getting a little dating advice on how to impress someone. I mean some people need help with woooing a girl or guy. Even if they get some help with whatever they need they are still going to have to "be themselves" at some point. It's better to make the effort to try to be impressive than to not make it at all.
2006-12-01 05:36:47 · answer #5 · answered by Kerry S 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not every one out there can take decisions as people like the one you do. Some people would ask their friends or family members for solutions to their problems... look we are not always right...
In ‘yahoo answers’ you are asking question to so many people and get multiple views... it would be easier to find a suitable option out of them...
Our instincts are not essentially correct as we keep learning all through our life.
2006-12-01 05:50:35 · answer #6 · answered by Harish Jharia 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong in seeking advice from people when needed. One get to know a positive and negative sides of the result which may have not been thought before .
2006-12-08 17:54:34 · answer #7 · answered by simran s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No i don't agree. Yahoo Answers is like a family to me now. And i like getting advice from my family and giving someone my views in case if feel i can contribute something to their questions. I don't feel anything is wrong if someone puts their question across even if they have not thought about it them selves.
2006-12-01 18:27:14 · answer #8 · answered by Blueberry 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, however, I think that most people still make up their own minds. They just want the opinions of others. And some are just bored and ask questions just to get a response. God bless****
2006-12-01 05:35:35 · answer #9 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think people just need to feel that there own ideas to handling a situation is the right one so they ask other's for advice, seeking the same answer.
2006-12-01 05:44:59 · answer #10 · answered by grocerygirl_24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋