Please answer without being judgment or presumptuous. It's just a question. You do not know who is asking or why it's being asked.
2006-12-01 05:30:48 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
in my experience, you can't fall in love with people you don't date.
2006-12-01 05:32:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I am married now, for 25 years but at 23 was very much in love with, and did "date" a married man. Would you like to know if it was disasterous? It really was. But only for me. He managed to keep his stuff intact, as it usually happens.
I know you didn't ask any further, but if you are in love with a married man know these things:
He will stay married, no matter what he says.
If by chance he does leave her - you are next to be cheated on.
If by chance he does leave her - you have helped to wreck a home
If by chance he does leave her - you will not feel good about yourself.
There just is no winning here. There are more single men than women out there. Please do yourself a favor and see if you can't find one. It will be so much better for everybody - especially if there are kids involved. I promise. And I am right on this one.
2006-12-01 05:40:21 · answer #2 · answered by outdone 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, its impossible for me to love something that doesn't exist.
**** Meaning that I know I can't have a real relationship with the guy. IN ADDITION ... if the guy is willing to have another woman on the side, that gives plenty of negative annotions about his character ... meaning he's an asshole.
Plus, I know my boundaries .... and thats all I have to say.
2006-12-01 05:37:35 · answer #3 · answered by rosie768 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A co-worker of mine did. It was horrible and to the point where they almost got caught. Eventually the married woman (wife) called my co-worker and apologized for harassing her. Apparently, the husband went home and told (lied) to his wife and told her that she (my co-worker) was actually a client. It's sad because I believe that he will never leave his wife for her and she still stays by thinking he will - one day. He won't (it's been over 3 years!)
2006-12-01 05:38:12 · answer #4 · answered by downinmn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not that she's wrong but I don't agree with Violet.....I think it happens (or at least it has to me) It's truly a heart breaking situation, you have to stop, take a breath, and remember that you are a good person and don't deserve to have to wait in line for anyone!
2006-12-01 05:35:57 · answer #5 · answered by Karen 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes!
2006-12-01 05:34:21 · answer #6 · answered by movu101779 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i haven't fallen in love with a married man, but i've had some very naughty thoughts about one of my married co-workers!
2006-12-01 05:41:40 · answer #7 · answered by grocerygirl_24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes!
2006-12-01 05:33:35 · answer #8 · answered by ~Jessica~ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
SURE, BUT THIER ARE SOME MARRIED WOMEN THAT CLAIM TO BE IN LOVE WITH A SINGLE GUY
2006-12-01 05:35:34 · answer #9 · answered by michael h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I have and it turned out bad
2006-12-01 05:38:18 · answer #10 · answered by draycoles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋