I met this guy on-line and have been chatting with him every day for 2 weeks. Now he wants to meet me. He says he likes voluptous girls but I am more than a hand full. How do I tell him how big I really am?
2006-12-01 05:26:55 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Show a picture. And your default picture isn't really you. You googled that.
2006-12-01 05:28:31 · answer #1 · answered by Ashley_Nicole 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I know it will be difficult, but you have to be honest. Didn't he ask your height and weight by now or did he ask to see a picture? Did you see a picture of him? He will find out anyway once he sees you. I once sent a guy a pic that I met online from a really long time ago when I was about 40lbs thinner. I wasn't trying to lie, I just simply did not have any current photos of me. I told him I did gain weight since that pic. Well, we met once and that was the last we ever spoke. I don't know if it was becasue I weighed more than my photo or we just didn't connect. If you do meet him, remember that chemistry happens in person, not online or over a computer. You could have great conversation via instant messages or on the phone, but you may have nothing to say in person. Good luck.
2006-12-01 13:36:41 · answer #2 · answered by Angrygirl5 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would tell him prior to actually meeting him.
Some guys do not care how big you are.others do to be fair give him the opportunity to decide if he still wants to meet you in person.
send him a photo not a naked one at least come off as a decent human not saying you are not decent because I am a big woman myself,but I do have modesty and would not disrespect my self by posing for nude pictures send him a photo of yourself in a nice outfit so he knows you are more than what the picture (on here) shows.Respect yourself,don't let no one convince you that you are not worthy of love and a good relationship because you are.
2006-12-01 13:34:19 · answer #3 · answered by leoslady3900 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just come out and tell him like it is. This way, if he still wants to meet you, you can do so with a peace of mind. You don't want to lie about it and when you meet him, he makes you look bad in public. it is always best to be honest. If he won't see you, then you know he was not being honest himself and he just need to take a hike.
2006-12-01 13:30:16 · answer #4 · answered by killerlegs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, it is not a good idea to meet him.
Please beware of people online.
He may not be who you think he is either.
It does not matter how big you are, I am sure if you wanted to meet someone you could in public places.
Give yourself more credit than that.
Get involved with volunteer groups, socials,bingo, etc.
You can meet a lot of nice people and they can see you for what you really are.
Remember, it is what you are inside that really matters.
Please tell this guy you changed your mind and do not want to meet him. SIGN OFF FOR GOOD!!!
2006-12-01 13:37:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Of course.... But make sure you talk with him on the phone first. Make sure he's telling YOU who he is, too. Meet at a VERY public place and STAY THERE the first few times you meet.
2006-12-01 13:29:34 · answer #6 · answered by Cristy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Okay, voluptuous means you have big boobs, other than that if you have not told him that you are plus sized, DO SO!!
Unless you want to get your feelings hurt when you see the look on his face when you meet him.
2006-12-01 13:39:37 · answer #7 · answered by HappyMOm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send a photo and be honest. If he doesn't want to meet after that then it's his loss. You will feel much better after getting over that hump.
2006-12-01 13:37:20 · answer #8 · answered by c1001838 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Send a pic.If he doesn't like the pic you dont have to go throught the drama of meeting him.
2006-12-01 13:29:07 · answer #9 · answered by Rockie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with him.
He will eventually find out the truth. If he finds out you lied about it, he will find someone else.
Oh, and be careful. There's a guy out there who preys on big girls. He takes their money, then leaves.
2006-12-01 13:30:24 · answer #10 · answered by Nancy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Better to do it now than later, I'm sure you would rather know if he's not interested in you because of your size Don't sell yourself short he may still be very interested...best of luck
2006-12-01 13:30:14 · answer #11 · answered by CJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋