haiving a boyfriend who is in love with you and having sex with him which would make him clingier than he already is....he is in love with me but im not so much with him...
or....
having some fun with someone with no strings attached..
both guys wants some but is no strings or an attachment better?
2006-12-01 05:24:11 · 17 answers · asked by Carissa H 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
being in a loving relationship is so much better than meaningless sex
2006-12-01 05:27:17 · answer #1 · answered by *KiM* 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well if you are not in love with him move on and as for having fun with someone and no attachment - is not good either because in the end someone will get attached and/or jealous and one person will get hurt if the other person does not feel the same .
2006-12-01 05:31:29 · answer #2 · answered by abadcv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guess I'm from the old school but nothing like monogomy. I would much rather be attached with one, whether I love him as much as he does me or not, than I had have casual sex with no strings attached but no respect or assurance of clean health issues either. Weigh it out, whatever makes you happy!
2006-12-01 05:27:49 · answer #3 · answered by georgiarose_01 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
looks like your priorities are a little messed up. woman talk bad about men all the time for wanting sex and thats it, and you prove the fact that some women are just okay with that. i want to thank you first for that. on the other hand, i like commitment. do you really want a guy to "f" you or do you want a guy to love you. thats all there is too it. "clingier is love" don't confuse that with anything else.
2006-12-01 05:31:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In your case, no strings attached, since you're not that crazy about the guy who loves you.
2006-12-01 05:27:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either one is good it just depeends on what you would like to have....I would perfer to have someone that I like and if you dont like the one that is attached then go for the one who is no strings...which ever makes you the happiest
2006-12-01 05:27:04 · answer #6 · answered by Brittany<3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you dating a guy you don't care that much for, when you know he really digs you? That's VERY unkewl. Let him go, and don't be physical with him, that'll just increase the emotional attachement for him.
If you want to have casual sex, that's fine...just protect yourself...but don't waste someone's time dating them when you know you aren't really into them...would you want to be treated that way?
2006-12-01 05:28:57 · answer #7 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are strings attached no matter which way you chose do what makes the most happy
2006-12-01 05:30:46 · answer #8 · answered by ronny b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how you feel about each guy. You already said you were not so much in love with the one that you said loves you but you didn't say anything about how you feel about the guy that just wants to hook up. I believe it would depend on how you feel about that guy and you personally feel about hook-ups.
2006-12-01 05:35:43 · answer #9 · answered by ambr95012 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like option 2 as long as it is me u choose
2006-12-01 06:02:44 · answer #10 · answered by Jim G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋