question to the men out there?

Question

ok, my bf only had one GF prior to me, she was maybe a B cup. now he's got me, we've been together for 3.5+ years, i'm lucky if i make it to an A cup in some brands. but when he's looking at porn he looks at really large breasted girls. is that what he really likes? did he just settle for us little boobed girls cause he's really shy and didnt think he could do better? it just makes me really upset thinking he finds that attractive and possibly not me :(

ok, then lets switch it up... you have me, and then standing next to me, you have the exact me with a D cup... what do most guys chose???

Answer 1

Men are the kings of "the grass is always greener on the other side" principal. That doesn't mean he isn't attracted to you, but sometimes we like to fantasize about what we don't have. Relax

Answer 2

Hi Mickey, Don't You Think That If You Have Been Together For Over Three And A Half Years It Kind Of Means This Guy Really Likes YOU. 99.999% Of All Men Have A Thing About Breasts And Can't Help Looking At Them Big Or Not So Big It Doesn't Usually Matter. It's Natural And I Wouldn't Worry About It. I For One Really Dig Girls Your Size Too. But With Me It's A Little Bit More To Do With Whats On The Inside That Matters And By That I Mean The Way You Make Him Feel And The Way You Feel About Him. Nobody Is Together As Long As You Two Have Been Without There Being Something Special There. God Bless You Both Darl, Thanx For Your Question And Please Have A Gooday!

Answer 3

Im not a guy but i have a question. Why do woman try so hard to please a man when a man doesnt even try half as hard to please a woman? Think about it. I think your more concerned about your size then he is. Yeah he likes boobs. What man doesnt. But maybe he likes you more then boobs. Why else would he be with you. If he wanted a big boobied girl im sure he can get because most woman now adays are huge. I tell you this much i got to be D cup and i worked so hard to make them smaller. Big boobs are hideous. I think woman with small and perky breasts look sexier. Another thing let him look at boobies and dont feel bad about it. Men need visual stimulation it doesnt mean he doesnt love your nor find you attractive. If you show that you self consious he will pick up on that and there is nothing more unnattractive then a self consious person. Love you boobs no matter what size they are because i guarantee that the bigger they are the older you get the lower they hang. Thats not hot!

Answer 4

let me explain something about guys and porn...and this should help to answer your question. Guys look at porn cause we want to see something that we don't have. If you are a small chested gal (btw personally and you can ask my wife...more then a mouthful is a waste). I would only be worried if I were you if he were looking at porn of a girl that looked exactly like and did exactly the same stuff as you two do. Otherwise if he is looking at porn of girls who look/act nothing like you...he is doing just the same thing all guys do...looking at what he doesn't/can't have to find out if he is doing it right or not with you. I won't lie there is a certian attractiveness to everyone, but lets face it....most guys will watch porn of any kind just cause its something different from what they have...if not there would be no "freak show" porn, and all porn stars would be the "goddess". Which if you've ever seen porn most aren't. I hope this helps and remember just cause he is watching porn doesn't mean anything about you personally.

Answer 5

Most men have an appreciation for all cup sizes. Only a very few will only date a woman w/ a certain size. Don't sweat it sweety, if he's with you he's not settling.
And trust me, large breast aren't all they're cracked up to be...they're heavy, make your back hurt and some guys only like you because of them so you never know who's seeing you for you and not your boobs. I always tell them if you think they're so great you try to carry them around all the time and buy a bikini that fits w/out being obscene.

Answer 6

I don't think he just settled for you because he is too shy to talk to women with large breast. Look at it this way, there are girls who are not so attractive in other physical ways or they are as shy as him, but they have nice breast. He could have given it a shot with someone like that, instead he did it with you because maybe there was something else really attractive in you like your personality or other physical appearance other than your boobs. If his been with you for that long he has chosen you for any other large breasted women that exists. That's something!!

Answer 7

Oh honey... Men like them in all sizes! Small breast are sooooooo sexy! I have D's and they are a pain in the ***! I cant wear low cut tops because then i look like a whore and i get the wrong attention. Your guy has been w/ you for a long time so I'm sure that your breast Turn him on! Maybe you should spice things up! Go to Victoria secrets and take it from there, Make your own video! Then maybe he wont have to watch porn!

Answer 8

Well if he is like me, he likes A cups all the way up too DD, but that doesn't mean he doesn't like you because he looks at larger breasts sometimes.

Answer 9

Well my dear women with no titts nowadays can go out and buy a set. So, save your money, your gonna need a set for any guy, unless hes gay in a way and likes a boyish body on a girl!!!!!!

Answer 10

if you had been together for that long i wouldnt say its too much of a problem. if your chest size bothered that much him then i would have thought he'd have left you by now. I wouldnt say that him looking at larger women in magazines (after all he doesnt dictate the "models" that the magazine uses) is too worrying compared to that your quetion suggests he's looking at it in front of you!!!!!!! Which i think is a touch disrespectful.