This guy that like and my friend ask him if he likes me and he does!!! my friend also got him to say that he would like to date me but he is scared to ask to out on a date!! He is really shy and i am shy too but sometimes I can be out going!!!
Should I ask he out or wait for him to ask me????
Plz Help me!!! thanks!! :)
2006-12-01 05:21:50 · 18 answers · asked by Shellie :) 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ask him out!
2006-12-01 05:24:03 · answer #1 · answered by Ronnie Gardocki 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems you're in a bit of a dilemma.
On the one hand you could ask him out. You'd like it. He'd like it. But for how long?
You see, while it may seem great that you'll be going out you have to think a little further. His shyness might become a problem later on. For example you might want to do something exciting but he just wants to stay home and watch a movie.
His lack of confidence could very likely be an indicator of how the relationship will turn out. Just something to think about regardless of what you decide.
2006-12-01 13:31:37 · answer #2 · answered by bmusementpark 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I must say if you have a friend that knows this guy likes you, you must tell your friend to tell him that you like him too but if he is waiting for you to ask him that he has a long wait because ladies don't ask boys to date. It has always been the guy to ask the gal. Also have her to say that you are waiting for him to ask you out on a date and that you will not say no if asked. This will give him more courage to ask you himself and look like a man and not a pansie!
2006-12-01 13:27:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is a real good question and I have a real good answer. Ask him to go somewhere with you, like, a store, in n out burger, walmart......somewhere that is not a date. Just make it seem real routine and normal like, Hey would you go to walmart with me, I dont like going alone. See, your not really asking him on a date, but, your getting to do something with him. After a while together he will realize your a wonderful warm and fuzzy person and he will most likely ask you out. Let me know how that works out for you. MIchelle has good advice.....read her notes.
2006-12-01 13:28:12 · answer #4 · answered by BudLt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know that I am not a guy but you should totally ask him out...If he said that he likes you and he would go out with you then totally ask him out...because there is nothing to be afraid of!!!â¥
2006-12-01 13:25:14 · answer #5 · answered by Brittany<3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im in the same situation you are right now but this is what you should make the first move, make sure his friends are not around when you this give him a kiss on the cheek and he will probably freeze of smile either way it go your in buisness but yeah im boy im not scared to make the first move i just dont
want to choke
2006-12-01 13:28:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you ask him if he wants to hang out? If he does maybe that will break the ice and present you or him with an opportunity.
2006-12-01 13:25:03 · answer #7 · answered by Michelle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would give it a few days and if he dosent ask you . than you should ask him. cuz if you dont ask you will always wonder what it would have been like to date him. and you asking him would show him that your not affraid to take chances. good luck sweetheart and i wish you the best.
2006-12-01 13:25:56 · answer #8 · answered by aleisha21 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him out, what's it going to hurt?
2006-12-01 13:25:25 · answer #9 · answered by Big Rick 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him out before you lose him to someone else.
2006-12-01 13:26:00 · answer #10 · answered by Gene,Jr 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋