I've tried to get with girls but with no luck. What is the average age is for beign a virgin? SHould I get help?
2006-12-01 05:17:10 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Other - Health
Love,
Thats better than normal. Thats the absolutely best condition you could be in right now, especially if you are not sick with anything else. You should not feel bad about it; and don't let anyone else make you feel bad about it either. Don't give in to pressure, because it will be the worst thing you ever did in your life. Allowing someone to violate your body and take your virginity because his phallus is standing up and you crack is nearest (and hopefully warm, ready and waiting) would be the dumbest thing you have ever done in your life. It is your life you know, and its your body too. If you ever want to be happy, don't do it with just any one. WAIT until you meet the One who meets all your hearts requirements. Be good to yourself.
2006-12-01 05:33:22 · answer #1 · answered by Honey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are male, then it's more in favor you are still a Virgin (girls are picky and guys make up stories).
Either gender, once your out of your teens it's a positive/good trait to the opposite gender that your still a virgin. (If you are homosexual, it depends,.. but that's just if others are picky.)
You should be honest with people you want to date or that are trying to get serious/all over you. Do not be quick to throw this away because there are some predators that feed on (and rape) Virgins (not some SciFi horror with Zombies and Vampires, but the Criminal Predators that seek out certain victims/pray).
Now if you want to know the age most people are still Virgins at,.. I would go with Birth,.. can't get any more Virgin then the day you are born.
Now as some warning,.. use protection becuse your first time(s) do not mean your immune to disease and pregnancy with your partner.
2006-12-01 13:41:25 · answer #2 · answered by sailortinkitty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Twenty is not at all an unusual age to be a virgin. I'm not sure what you mean by help, but if you want to meet women and eventually get devirginized, make sure you are:
1. Clean. Take care of your hair, clothes, and body. Nobody likes a slob.
2. Interesting. Have some non-computer related hobbies. Read books and see movies.
3. Appealing. Friendly, nonangry, respectful, with a good sense of humor, and not too twitchy and uncomfortable in their presence.
Note that if you go into a relationship with the sole goal of losing your virginity you will not be appealing. Go into dating hoping to make friends, fall in love, and develop relationships and they will respond. Good luck.
2006-12-01 13:29:34 · answer #3 · answered by MissA 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe it is your good luck that has been at work. at least you don't have a bunch of illegitimate kids running around and no STD's. don't worry about it. the only help you need is finding the right girl for you. that will happen at some point. i know a guy who was a virgin til he was in his thirties. sure, he was frustrated a lot, but he was ok. if you mean by 'should i get help' - 'should i get a prostitute' then definitely NO! your 1st experience should be something special that you will remember fondly. you might try some of the dating sites on the net. i bet you could find plenty of nice girls out there that would be happy to help you out. just don't get in too big a hurry. once you've lost your viginity, you can't get it back. hold out for someone worthy of giving up your virginity for. she's out there. don't give up on her.
2006-12-01 13:34:09 · answer #4 · answered by Dale B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
haha. How stupid your last sentence is!!!! Should I get help! hahahahaha
Give me a break. If you had said "I still can't tie my shoes" or "I still don't know how to read" then your statement "Should I get help" makes sence. Come on - be real.
There are even people who die virgins - most are DEEPLY religious people.
Just because your friends had sex, does that mean you have a problem because you haven't. If they jumped off a bridge would you want to follow?
It should be about finding TRUE love. Listen kid, I did my first time with a woman I cared nothing about. I regretted it even though I am a guy. Just wait until you find the right girl and then date her long enough till you know you both belong together and BOTH are happy doing the wild thing.
Until them use some intelligence in asking your questions! Don't add stupid comments at the end. Remember the old saying. "He only looked like a fool until he openned his mouth and removed all doubt!".
2006-12-01 13:32:00 · answer #5 · answered by The Ultimate Nerd 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't think you should worry about a normal age to lose your virginity. If it hasn't happened yet, there's probably a reason behind it. Maybe in your heart, you are waiting for the right one to come along, and you would regret it if you had sex with someone just to do it. I think that it takes a strong person to listen to their heart and not just do what their "yoo-hoo" wants, you know what I mean?
Anyway, when you find the woman that loves you as much as you'll love her, you'll be happy that you shared your first time with her, trust me! Plus, it's really rare for a guy to wait for the right woman, a lot of guys are man whores and this is really unattractive to nice girl.
Don't worry, and I really don't think you need help. But if you just have questionsthat you need answered, talk to someone about it.
2006-12-01 13:31:10 · answer #6 · answered by eskimobaby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. I know a guy who is a 26 year old virgin that still lives with his parents. You're not pathetic yet.
But don't just screw any girl that will let you - wait til you find someone you care about (and it doesnt have to be your wife) Pre-marital sex rules!!!
2006-12-01 13:25:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A 20 year virgin, is not normal by society's standpoint, but it needs to be. You hold on to what you got until you find the right women....
2006-12-01 13:31:37 · answer #8 · answered by cgeto1 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no! not at all you should be proud fo your self! staying a virgin is a pride many people throw away.thought you might want to get help with dating and finding that lucky someone
2006-12-01 13:24:51 · answer #9 · answered by lohanaddict 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are doing great, when the time comes you and the onte you love will know, there is not really a age limit
2006-12-01 15:10:17 · answer #10 · answered by stringhead3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋