Like you meet someone and wonder wow there cute and think i could date this person.
2006-12-01 04:56:29 · 8 answers · asked by zabadass 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you can still think that they are cute but you shouldn't think wow I could I date them? because to me that's like losing a little bit of the love you have for whoever you love.
2006-12-01 05:02:01 · answer #1 · answered by kek_319 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're in love you can still find people attractive. It's human nature. It is NOT human nature to act on it. You will always find others attractive. But actually thinking about dating that person is a little crossing the line. That's what I think. I've been married 6 years. I do find other attractive but i've never thought... "Hmmm I could date that person." I just look and quickly move on. No thoughts really have time to form in my head. I'm happy and truly in love though. Are you?
2006-12-01 13:04:11 · answer #2 · answered by WALACPL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely. It is perfectly normal. Just because you are in love with someone it doesn't mean that you suddenly stop finding other people attractive. The part of your brain that tells you that you might be compatible with someone else doesn't stop working just because you are in love. Its whether you act on your impulses and be unfaithful that matters. If you are unfaithful then I'd argue that you weren't actually in love with the other person in the first place.
2006-12-01 13:07:15 · answer #3 · answered by 9 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love isnt about looks. U love someone because of who they are, looks are a bonus I think. If u see someone that you think you could be with then you may not be commited to ur current relationship 100%. But if you jus think someone is attractive its not a big deal. Its how you react to those feelings that matter.
2006-12-01 13:04:15 · answer #4 · answered by katig184 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I do but I don't necessarily want to date them. There's a lot of attractive people in the world(including you maybe?) having a boyfriend doesn't stop me from appreciating them.
2006-12-01 13:06:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you do. Just because you're in a relationship, doesn't mean your eyes stop working. You'll always be attracted to what was attractive to you before you met your girl.
Secret: This is true for ladies also.
So you're quite normal.
2006-12-01 13:02:35 · answer #6 · answered by peter n 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I once heard some where that:
Just because you are a diabetic it doesn't mean you couldn't check out the frosting on a cake and think, I bet that's some delicious frosting
2006-12-01 13:17:26 · answer #7 · answered by crazy_monkey_jr010 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think of it like going to a museum. I look at the works of art and admire their beauty, but I can't touch them or take them home.
2006-12-01 13:15:08 · answer #8 · answered by jonnyexcel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋