My friend broke up with this guy a short time ago. She tells me she like him and that she wants to go back out with him, but y'all see the problem is that this guy isn't in to her anymore. And she is asking me if by doing this she would be consider a whore, or that people might think she is easy.
I don't know what to say i need help please.
2006-12-01 04:47:46 · 15 answers · asked by rayedos69 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he doesn't want to be with her then there's no sense in forcing things to happen. When good things are meant to be they happen. Tell her to give it some time and be patient, eventually some other guy will come along. You are a good friend for trying to help her.
Good luck to you both.
2006-12-01 04:57:09 · answer #1 · answered by crazy_monkey_jr010 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it would make her look like a whore. Begging may send a completely different message like that she's desperate, needy/clingy, indecisive and emotionally unstable. I think it's alright for her to ask the guy out again and she can of course express her feelings and sorrows and why they broke up to begin with but I don't think it's ever appropriate to "beg". If the guy's not willing to get back with her then she may need to accept the loss and move on.
Hope my opinion helps!
2006-12-01 05:02:59 · answer #2 · answered by david e 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that it is stupid to beg someone to go out with you. For me, if someone does not want to go out with me, then it is their loss. There are just too many problems when a relationship is forced. You really should go out with people who like you and our there because they want to be, not because they knew that they would have to put up with your whinning until they agreed to go out with you. So No, I don't think that it is a good Idea.
Also, I don't think that makes her a whore. That just just makes her really desperate and insecure. Now if she is begging guys to have sex with her, then that is an entirely different story. But where I come from, a date does not mean sex, and you really have to be sleeping around to be a whore.
2006-12-01 04:55:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should never beg a guy to go out with you. It makes you look desparete, easy, and very lonely...besides that, guys usually aren't into the desparate type unless they think they're gonna get some a** and then as soon as they do they dump you
2006-12-01 04:54:05 · answer #4 · answered by antsy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Begging someone to go out with you doesn't make you a whore but it makes you look desperate and pathetic.
2006-12-01 04:53:13 · answer #5 · answered by JustMe 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she begs him she just looks pathetic, not a whore. If she hasnt gotten the hint yet just tell her that hes not into her anymore and she looks really sad begging for him.
2006-12-01 04:51:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It wouldn't be bad to let him know she is interested again. However, if he isn't interested and she begs she will probably feel foolish and regret it later. Also if he isn't interested, your friend acting desperate isn't going to make him want her more, if anything it would probably turn him off. If he isnt interested she should move on!
2006-12-01 04:52:08 · answer #7 · answered by LLL 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-10 19:50:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She needs to stop begging and find someone else and that a shame shes begging for him she needs to move on.
2006-12-01 04:55:12 · answer #9 · answered by Riyonna D 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what's attractive about a girl you dumped begging you to take her out again? She'd be considered a joke.
2006-12-01 04:52:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋