My bf abused me in june coz he saw me dancing with another guy. He broke up n told me im a cheap gurl along with abuses . then he stopped contacting me. But after a month he started contacting through text mesgs. Again not very pleasant mesgs. but now on 14th nov he again abused me as he kept asking me through text mesgs if i had gone on a date with another guy. But i kept silent and he again abused me through mesgs tht im a prosti**te. He told me he wants to slap me n abuse me . When 2 mesgs were sent by chance to him by me, He abused me n mesgd tht if another mesg i send...he will break my hands n abused me. Why does he abuse me???I replied tht im very much scared of him n to keep away from me . He considers me to be a very cheap gurl whereas i was with my parents when he thought me to be dating with some guy as his friends told him so.He only trusts his friends n they keep telling him im bad.NOW HE HASNT CONTACTD ME SINCE 15DAYS. WILL SUCH A GUY TRY TO CONTACT OR TEXT MESG ME AGAIN
2006-12-01 04:34:30 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hon, he so does not deserve you. your life must be a living hell right now. if i were you i would call the police next time he does anything harmful to you, and get a restraining order. if you still have those text messegas use them against him if you have to. you are beautiful inside and out and you DON'T need him in your life. as a matter of fact, you need him OUT of your life, so you can be your own person. once he's out of the picture, just work on being yourself, because in the end, that's all that matters. if you EVER need help, you can tell me, i'm usually online, so i'm here! girly_girl_smiles@yahoo.com
2006-12-01 04:57:32 · answer #1 · answered by nanerz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Create a new folder in your phone for his text messages and save them there.
2. Call the cops and press charges against him for harassment.
It's not abuse, it's harassment. There is a difference, vague but still a difference.
Good luck, I hope he leaves you alone.
2006-12-01 12:39:20 · answer #2 · answered by FaerieWhings 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a different cell phone number.
A bit of a hassle, but may be worth it, as you don't have to think about it any more.
I don't think there is much else you can do. Verbal offenses don't count much, though actual threats may.
2006-12-01 12:52:27 · answer #3 · answered by convictedidiot 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya surely he contacts u just for abusing u,its ur mistake to give chance to others to abuse u,think he loves u so much but u breaked his heart,k leave it and be cool.
2006-12-01 12:43:30 · answer #4 · answered by mane 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably he will contact you again. Guys like that see you as their property, whether you are actually with them or not. Stay as far away as possible from him.
2006-12-01 12:38:07 · answer #5 · answered by babyj248 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
rule 1- if threatend tell the cops and pray for help.
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2006-12-01 12:36:28 · answer #7 · answered by c g 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋