i lost my family over a year ago and have been looking for another relationship to settle down in but all the time women just have sex with me and thats it but i want more. i am sick of being used. besides the couple threesomes i have had which i could see no relationship coming out of that. why am i just a sex object?
2006-12-01 04:28:12 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
pants on fire you lier
no guy will complaint about that unless deep inside you are a
Nancy Boy
2006-12-01 04:39:34 · answer #1 · answered by J.C. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So people are just very trashy and opportunistic. The women you have been with are probably into the whole "friends with benefits" thing -- where its all about sex and pleasure without a strings attached. This way, they can get away with murder without any consequences.
You need to slow down an re-evalute yourself. Maybe what you find attract in a woman isn't why you need in a mate.
Hey, I had to take sometime out an reflect on why I continued to attract the wrong men. However, my conclusion was to stay single until I was through with college and until I've matured enough.
LOL!!! We should talk! LOL, I'm just kidding.
Honestly, I hope I was of some help to you.
2006-12-01 12:35:22 · answer #2 · answered by rosie768 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before you have sex, start dating the women a bit without sleeping with them and then determine whether or not they are looking for a long-term relationship as well. There are plenty of women looking for one and you might be the right match for them and they for you. You need to spend more time with them before sleeping with them because if you're just sleeping with women right away then you are with women that are easy and probably just looking for sex if they are giving it up that quickly.
2006-12-01 12:33:41 · answer #3 · answered by Stephanie S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont have sex with them.
maybe go for a different type of girl. seems like you like the shallow ones. if you can date a girl and not have sex with her for a while, she knows you want more than that. sex on the first date usually means that, thats all the person wanted. they dressed up, found the victom, fcked him and got laid for the night. find someone with a heart and someone who can look deeper than just a hot fck for the night. if you stoop to their level, they are going to think you are only out for what they went out looking for as well. after that, they dont give a **** about you.
2006-12-01 12:34:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to hear about losing your family.
I think you need to try dating someone for awhile, and leave the bedroom stuff alone. If you're really interested in meeting a woman, try finding one in places different from where you're going to now (ie. the bar).
When you do meet someone that you're interested in for qualities as a woman, with a personality.... talk to her...take her out on dates. Tell yourself that you're going to wait a few weeks to have sex with her.
It sounds to me, like you're just as guilty in the sex thing as they are. They aren't doing it to you.. you're chosing the wrong women, and doing it with them, and to yourself.
mj
2006-12-01 12:34:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You get used because you let them use you.
If you're tired of being used, say no to sex. Don't give it up on the first date. Wait awhile until you know that the girl won't use you for just sex.
Wait til you find that girl who makes you get that fuzzy feeling in your tummy.
2006-12-01 12:42:21 · answer #6 · answered by kek_319 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Deciding to have sex with someone is usually a two way street....meaning it is also your decision if you want to or not. STOP HAVING SEX WITH THESE WOMEN!
2006-12-01 12:30:54 · answer #7 · answered by babyj248 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You put out too soon. You need to wait for something substantial to develop before you let it get physical.
2006-12-01 12:31:30 · answer #8 · answered by Aloe-ish-us 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must be one heel of a stud. You go dude.
Only about a million guys would like to have your problem
2006-12-01 12:31:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what are you complaining about? you sound like a love sick teen age girl. why did you loose your family?
2006-12-01 12:32:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋