my boyfriend and I havent been going out that long. we both wanna kiss but its too hard for sum reason. i know that sounds strange......its just everytime we go to kiss eachother we either change our minds or the other person moves away. we both really want to do it but feel like there is soo much pressure. has anyone else ever felt like that? how do you resolve it?
2006-12-01 04:24:12 · 17 answers · asked by chatterbox15 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hehem....im 16
2006-12-01 04:33:50 · update #1
I've been in the same position before. When I was sixteen and going out with this guy, we both waited 8 months before we built the courage to kiss. Our first kiss was really awkward and I actually broke up with him soon after because I realised that I felt uncomfortable with it because I only want him as a mate.
If you really do want to kiss though, try being more cuddly. Kiss him on the forehead, peck him on the neck, get more comfortable and snuggly. Then you'll be snogging before you know it.
Good luck with it!
2006-12-01 04:44:59 · answer #1 · answered by Daisfunk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go on a date, not a regular run of the mill date but something exciting and different where you can have a lot of fun like ice skating or skiikng, you will both be able to have a laugh, perhaps at each others expense but anyway, it will help you relax in each others company and then perhaps the kiss will come naturally! Best of luck :o)
2006-12-01 12:29:59 · answer #2 · answered by doodlenatty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like you said in the question.... YOU BOTH NEED TO JUST RELAX and realize that it isn't that big of a deal. Try giving each other a lip "peck" or two. Then if you need to, laugh, or look into each others eyes, or hold hands. Then try it again, and make it last longer. You don't need to have a 4 minute open mouth frencher every time you kiss. Just do what feels natural and you will be ok.
2006-12-01 12:28:22 · answer #3 · answered by captainkirkwood 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah when I was 14 I couldn't manage more than a peck on the lips with the guy I was seeing. That was once in about 2 months! oh I was so sweet an innocent back then! x Dazman don't go encouraging her to have sex and all that she's probably only a young girl and it takes time to build confidence.
2006-12-01 12:28:37 · answer #4 · answered by Skippy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think both of u wanna rush into kissing eachother. The best think for u guys is to wait and let everything flow naturally. Let the chemistry work and dont try to force urself in to it.
GUDLUCK
2006-12-01 12:30:58 · answer #5 · answered by teemah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Plenty of time for that. Take things slow then you will both relax.
2006-12-01 12:45:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've been like that u just have to trust ur partner and ur self dont do anything to quick
2006-12-01 12:26:26 · answer #7 · answered by Chelsea J 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
go out for a couple of drinks ..when you are typsy you bound not to shy away the next time he tries o kiss you....
2006-12-01 12:31:25 · answer #8 · answered by sanj.. 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
give him a sedative lol.
no really just go for it if he pulls away talk about it.
good luck
2006-12-01 12:39:45 · answer #9 · answered by PETER J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
something isn't right and your feeling it, thats why your not comfortable with him....maybe you need to really step back and revisit the reason you like him.
2006-12-01 12:28:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋