Quite a few times I can sit in the cafeteria at school and I get a guy approaching me asking about my day and the conversation always ends with him asking me for my number or asking if i want to go out. I'm always hesistant and give him something like my e-mail address or my MySpace page. I only recently realized that I'm quite attractive.
It's not that I don't want to date or be in a relationship, I just feel right now is a bad time because my future is uncertain and I might move and I don't like the idea of committing when i know I will have to end it soon. Plus I feel like dating will take me away from my studies.
Anyone have any advice for me?
2006-12-01 04:24:04 · 7 answers · asked by christigmc 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm in college.
I plan to move out of state for grad school
2006-12-01 04:30:26 · update #1
You remind me of myself! You go girl! You know what you want, so just be faithful to it. So basically, if you aren't sure, don't do it.
Don't let strangers into your life unless you are very sure that you want them there. Otherwise, if they end up being bad company, you'lll have only yourself to blame.
2006-12-01 04:33:38 · answer #1 · answered by ebonii_cuteee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two things to consider:
One - You are in school, which is obviously your priority. This is a great testament to your decision making skills. The fact that you do worry about it to limit yourself now for the future shows that clearly.
Two - Every moment in your life only comes once. Any person you meet could be the one to change your life forever. If you don't keep your eyes open for great opportunities, they will never find you.
Ask yourself what you really want in life right now. You are in school, you don't know how long you'll be here. OK, that's not a problem - be honest with the person right from the beginning - that you are not interested in a long term relationship, or that you'd like to keep things at a very low key.
And then... find a balance between personal life and school. You have a good head on your shoulders, and should be able to do it.
Good luck!
2006-12-01 04:42:27 · answer #2 · answered by Brett M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say a lot of folks are reading your question and saying "poor little attractive girl", but hey, everyone has problems, right? Anyway, my advice is this. Don't put your life on hold just because of an uncertain future. Be honest with whomever you date. Who said all relationships had to be "committed". Have friends who understand your dedication to your studies and will understand when you have to ditch them for books.
2006-12-01 04:32:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your not ready for a relationship then you dont give them your number, its normal for you to feel this way alot of girls do. Plus have b/f is stress along with studying. They might feel a little rejected but they will understand and get over it. plus being single is so much fun especially when your attractive.
2006-12-01 04:32:27 · answer #4 · answered by Kay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like the guy then go, just only go out on the weekend. Plus if your in high school there is no commitment.
2006-12-01 04:28:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes anytime someone ask you out say "YES!!" and give them you phone number its easy.
2006-12-01 04:27:22 · answer #6 · answered by Jessica 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sound intellegant, just tell them your not interested.
2006-12-01 04:28:07 · answer #7 · answered by StarWarsFanatic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋