If I like to open the door to my women, send flowers and write letters to her, move her chair in a restaurant so she can seat. Would you think I´m old fashioned or cheesy?
2006-12-01 04:20:46 · 11 answers · asked by Bruce W. 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's very sweet, but too much of this will be an overkill. Open the door always, send flowers occasionally, and the letter thing, just don't do it too much. You want your girl to be your world,but give her room to breathe.
2006-12-01 04:25:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not a woman, but I think there's still a need for gentlemen in today's society. Some might find it cheesy, but others will love you for it.
If it feels like the natural thing to do then why not? If you're not completely happy with the whole thing and it feels awkward then maybe not.
Nothing wrong with being courteous.
2006-12-01 12:26:09 · answer #2 · answered by Gilligan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u are a gentleman and i wanna know where i can find one .... there is nothin wrong with doin that believe it or not even in this day and age of equality some women still like the man to be a gentleman.. go for it and i hope the person who is lucky enough to have it done to them appreciates it
2006-12-01 12:35:20 · answer #3 · answered by angelindisguise 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it may be old-fashioned but that's not a bad thing. It just shows that your very sweet, respectful, and courteous. It also shows that you actually have manners which is definately something you don't find in most men these days. So definately don't stop what your doing. If nobody else like, who cares??
2006-12-01 12:38:11 · answer #4 · answered by antsy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that doing those things shows that you are thoughtful. Those things are sweet, I like old fashioned when it comes to things like that. Treating women well will never be cheesy.
2006-12-01 12:33:44 · answer #5 · answered by voidtillnow 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you can do it without making a big production out of it and expecting her to swoon every time you do something nice, I would think it was a lovely characteristic. I wouldn't do it, like every day (flowers and letters), and I wouldn't basically tackle her to keep her from opening a door for herself, but otherwise, it's nice.
2006-12-01 12:25:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have to say keep up the good points never chessy to me I call it being a gentelmen some of us deserve that and more. Some stuff never gets old.
2006-12-01 12:23:48 · answer #7 · answered by D'oh! 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Neither, I would think you are chivalrous and that there isn't enough of that out there.
More men should be like you.
2006-12-01 12:26:07 · answer #8 · answered by Miz D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's the way it should be. If a man doesn't do these things then he's not a keeper.
2006-12-01 12:25:52 · answer #9 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its sweet and all but I do not believe you will lose brownie points if you didnt do these things. NOT IN TODAYS SOCIETY ANYWAY!
2006-12-01 12:25:06 · answer #10 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋