I have been fiting with my girlfriend constantly because when she is at home and i am out with friends she thinks i'm with another girl=(i have told her so many times i would never cheat ob her=(I lost a friend that i have been friends with for 10 years because my girlfriend thought i was sleeping with her=( ive lost every1 over her and know that i threaten to leave she told me she is pregnant which is immpossible because i wore protection and she is on the pill
Sould i leave or go??
2006-12-01 04:18:32 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just so you know, she can still get pregnant even if you ware pretection and she is on the pill....they just lower the risk..... she probably is like that because someone has cheated on her in the past or treated her like ****.... how long have you been with this girl??? i would just say i am tired of taking the wrap for all of you past bad relationships or whatever so this going to happen.... you are going to stop thinking i am with other girls when im not or i am leaving,,,, if she says she is pregnant which she isnt, spend the $10 or however much it cost and buy a pregnancy test and make her take it right in front of you....
2006-12-01 04:44:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've kinda answered your one question dude - you listed a bunch of reasons why your relationship is bad and not one reason why it is good. If there is no trust, there can be no true love. Break up and move on with your life.
FYI - even if you wore a condom, it's only 97% effective and could have broken... and she SAYS she's on birth control, but it's possible she missed a few pills accidentally (or on purpose, so she could get pregnant and cement your relationship). Make her take a pregnancy test and have her show you the result before you believe her - she doesn't seem very trustworthy.
2006-12-01 04:27:12 · answer #2 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
instead of going out without her...take her with you...seems she's a little insecure and has her doubts about you, prove to her that your not cheating by going out together...have her meet your friends and join in on activities, if the fighting continues and you cannot make her happy then try a short separation, if that does not work then break up or try something that will save your relationship....sometimes the pill does not work and sometimes condoms don't either...i have known people to get pregnant while taking the pill... but if you think she is lying to trap you into staying then go with her and have a proper pregnancy test done by the clinic or doctor....do things with her and she may become a happier person.....but don't walk out on her just yet...try and mend things, if it does not work and she is not pregnant, then leave....
2006-12-01 04:42:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girlfriends comes and go but real frnds are for ever. You cannot just abandon for frnd that u knew for the past 10 yrs just to please ur girl. If she really loves u, she'll let u have ur time with ur frnds.I think that she's trying to hold you down. If u think that she cant be pregnant, then go to the doctor for pregnancy check. If she's pregnant, u've to accept that fact and if she's not boy u av to move on with ur life and make sure that you apologise to all ur frnds that u abandoned.
Gudluck.
2006-12-01 04:26:50 · answer #4 · answered by teemah 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go. Now. Run as fast as you can. Are your sure she's on the pill? and condoms aren't 100%. She's probably lying, but you better make sure and if she is pregnant, get a DNA test. It's been my experience that people that accuse you of cheating are usually the ones that are cheating. Because they know what they are capable of, they believe you're capable of it too.
2006-12-01 04:25:31 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's taken me a very long time to realize that jealousy is a no go in relationships. I use to be just like your girl....but i've realized that it isnt' worth losing someone over....obviously she has no trust in you, and trust is key in a relationship. She can't expect you to be up her a s s 24/7. You both need your own time out with your seperate friends. She obviously isn't mature enough to handle that concept . YOu need to let her go.
2006-12-01 04:22:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
u shud sit down and talk to her but u shouldnt stop contact with ur mates over her give her a trial period and see dan if it doesnt work out u cat say u didnt try.der may be a reason as to why u shes so inseure
2006-12-01 04:29:10 · answer #7 · answered by xxlauraxxox 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go life is too short then when the baby is born have a dna test if it's yours be a good dad and support it if it's not walk away knowing you didn't put years into a worthless experience :)
2006-12-01 04:38:10 · answer #8 · answered by rachael f 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go, she's insecure and kinda crazy shes only gunna bring you down. Friends are important and you can always find another girl.
2006-12-01 04:22:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this relationship is going nowhere get out !!
you will never have friends of the other sex and if you do it will always be secretive as you will be afraid of her finding out..
or you lay your cards on table tell her how you feel and see if she is willing to change.
it really depends how much you really love eachother
good luck
2006-12-01 04:32:40 · answer #10 · answered by PETER J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋