First off, I'm a twin and I'm engaged to a terrific man. My twin always comes over to our house EVERY WEEKEND and when I tell her no she can't come over she throws a fit and we fight. Well, I've been PMSing pretty horrible for the past couple days, I'm usually pretty good at not letting things get me upset. My fiance and I have been arguing because of my attitude. I wanted to make love last night but my persuing was to no avail. I then told him "it's like he saving himself for my twin sis." (I have to work 4 hours every sat. so they're home alone together.) he said I was silly. Then I said, "you don't want to 'screw' me and I know how much you love sex. I'll be starting soon and I know you like my sister...I guess you two will be ******* this weekend." As soon as I said that his dick shot straight up and he turned his back on me from us spooning in bed. We argued about his reaction but I felt his dick stir when I said that - he said it had been hard for a while. What should I do? HELP!
2006-12-01 04:18:08 · 12 answers · asked by Amanda D 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What I would do is get someone to replace you at work this Sat but tell the both of them your going to work as usual. Leave the house as you would normally do then give them enough time to get naked if that's what they are doing and then walk back in the house. If there is something to catch, you hopefully will catch it.
2006-12-01 04:22:59 · answer #1 · answered by JustMe 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a huge problem. You may just be over reacting... but I don't think I would want the 2 of them home alone. Re-evaluate the situation... do you really think these 2 people would really hurt you so badly? How has your relationship with him been latley? Has anything changed about the way your sister acts? Do they act differently when they are around eachother? Then again, you know if something just don't feel right, then there could be something going on. You should also talk to your sister about this, see what her reaction is too, since you already know his. I hope there is nothing going on and I wish you lots-a-luck.
2006-12-01 04:25:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first and foremost i would never leave a female family member (even twin sister) at home alone with my husband when im at work yes shes your family but no one can really be trusted and they are the ones to 10 times more likely have an affair because your not expecting it, i think your twin should except the fact you need your space and as far as the husband is concerned i think you should well im not not really sure about that one sorry but if you think he may be attracted to your twin i think you should talk to the both of them in the same room and find out whats going on.
2006-12-01 04:25:36 · answer #3 · answered by Dimplez87 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you can't "get over it" because you must go through it. So why not go through it with her? Why not tell her that you are in her corner and will be with her every step of the way? Why not research the disease and its treatments so that you can make an informed decision and discuss it with her. Today and now more than ever, people are beating cancer and surviving. A great deal of the ability to survive has to do with the patients mental outlook, a positive spirit, supportive loved ones and the attitude that this cancer can be beaten and she will survive and thrive. Right now, she is depressed and miserable, too. She needs your strong right arm and she needs you to be there for her. Above all, let her talk about it. I wish you and your sister all the best.
2016-05-23 07:55:38 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There may or may not be something going on. You should sit THEM down and express yourself. She is your twin so I would think you should be able to tell if she is lying. I mean what does she do and why does she want to come to our home on weekends anyway? It does sound suspicious, but you really never know.
2006-12-01 04:23:41 · answer #5 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't judge him by what his dick does! They have minds of their own, you know. But, seriously, tell your sister that she is cauding problems and that you love to hang yout with her but you can't have her in the house alone with your fiance.
But, I am worried about your relationship in general if you are having these kinds of issues. You guys really need to sort out why you don't trust him before you get married!
2006-12-01 04:21:33 · answer #6 · answered by Aloe-ish-us 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The reaction "erection" tells you that he was aroused by the thought of your sister. Why shouldnt he want sex with you if he already is hard? Sounds fishy to me. You better watch those two.
2006-12-01 04:21:53 · answer #7 · answered by I know, I know!!!! 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dear one, ask him to chose, you or your sister, and if he decide lock the door for your sister or let him move out. You or your sister will find love anyway.
2006-12-01 04:23:53 · answer #8 · answered by poltiman1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what kind of sister would go after another sisters man NOT cool
2006-12-01 04:22:41 · answer #9 · answered by missmycoco 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that sucks you should come home from work early on saturday and catch them
2006-12-01 04:20:42 · answer #10 · answered by sexylittleleo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋