Ok i have this girl that lives next to me who i like but its hard to tell if she likes me back. One night we where drinking and we ended up at her place and something happened, no sex but about everything except sex. Ever since then we have still hung out and stuff but nothing has been said about that night. She is acting a little different i think , basically im just wondering what i should do to see if she likes me. Im really shy so i would never just flat out ask her but maybe in a more subtle way. And the fact she lives next door kinda makes it hard because if it dont work out than i dont want us to get uncomfortable and avoid each other. So should i keep it like the way it is and be more patient or should i try to find out if she does like me, if so how? Basically i wanna find out soon so it dont get drawn out in the end cause i think by now she would know if she likes me or not right? any way any advice helps, thanks in advance.
2006-12-01 04:05:36 · 14 answers · asked by jdmholdemslick 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she may be acting different because she is unsure how you feel about her and what happened. i think you should talk to her about it and how you feel about her. it can be a risk if you are unsure of her feelings for you but things have change between you two already. it cant hurt, you can always remain friends.
2006-12-01 04:12:48 · answer #1 · answered by fac3d 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Patient HELL, get in the game son. she is nervous because she likes you too. Get 'er done before the wiondow of opportunity passes you by. And as far as approaching her, ask her if she's ready for another night of drinking. she'll let you know if its the booze or you that she was after.
2006-12-01 12:08:03 · answer #2 · answered by Red Winged Bandit 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, but I think you are probably reading too much into it. She's as likely embarrassed about the night than she is shy by interest in you. She might find you atttractive, but for really liking you beyond a possible lay, I don't know. I hope she does for your sake, but I don't think you should get your hopes up.
2006-12-01 12:12:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
well I've had the same thing happen, sort of anyway. Point is I get to see her everyday. And well. Just take the risk. It's better knowing what did happened[no matter how bad it might turn out] than wondering what could've happend
2006-12-01 12:21:45 · answer #4 · answered by Manuel Perez 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She has a boyfriend on the side somewhere else that she doesn't want you to know about. Ask her how she feels and if she gives the cold shoulder and shy away, then I am right about what I said.
2006-12-01 12:10:04 · answer #5 · answered by Chaka J 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
she likes you, but maybe she is shy to, and wants to talk about it, maybe another night like the other 1 you had would be a great idea, think about it, good luck mate
2006-12-01 12:09:12 · answer #6 · answered by louise 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two choices.
1. Keep it the way it is and go through the rest of your life wondering
2. Take a chance and go for it.
2006-12-01 12:07:49 · answer #7 · answered by Allinwiththenuts 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well she might of that that night u guys had was a little akward.give her some time to think....good luck.
2006-12-01 12:09:16 · answer #8 · answered by roxygirl 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well you should definatly ask her what she feels. and if she feels the same way as you then go out and have safe fun. :)
2006-12-01 12:09:50 · answer #9 · answered by TiGgEr_LoVeR 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think she likes you and you should talk to her about it.
2006-12-01 12:07:51 · answer #10 · answered by misscongeniality711 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋