guys always say stuff about it but if its your first time how good do they expect you to be
2006-12-01 03:40:10 · 8 answers · asked by andrea 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
im not going to lie to you..it hurts pretty bad and you probably arent going to want to do anything but lay there..and that is perfectly okay..i know lots of girls that cried their first time..your experience might be different..if it is painful, try to focus on your emotions (ie:love, excitement, whatever) instead of the pain..and i would also let your guy know that it is your first time and that you are nervous..and if you are nervous or scared to tell him that then you shouldnt be having sex with him..and just so you know normally around like the 3 or 4th time, it starts to feel good :)
2006-12-01 03:50:20 · answer #1 · answered by Shina Beana 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, that is probably all you will really want to be doing anyways. Losing your virginity is not exactly a walk in the park. My experience was horrifying and it was not enjoyable.
It was of course later on after I had sex numerous times months later.
Just be responsible and use protection! And explain to your guy that while it is your first time, he needs to understand it will be very uncomfortable for you. Hopefully, this is something you are both ready for. Sex is a HUGE step in a relationship.
2006-12-01 11:44:23 · answer #2 · answered by snlfreak83 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why have sex if you can't be a part of it? Sounds like you are too young to be having sex. Sex should be a great thing for both partners. It is a maturity thing. You need to wait for your ownself and don't worry about the guy. They can find sex at the next corner.
2006-12-01 11:53:56 · answer #3 · answered by Lost in Maryland 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For the guy just go with what feels right and for girls just go with what feels right. If you are the right age to be having sex then good luck and if you are young then you know you hsouldnt be doing that and ALWAYS wrap it up!!!
2006-12-01 11:43:11 · answer #4 · answered by gstolard 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First time needs to be with a good guy who won't judge you on performance. If you really love him it'll come naturally so stop worrying.....if you need help.....get in touch lol
2006-12-01 11:52:20 · answer #5 · answered by Scribbler 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know, I lost mine standing up in the kitchen of my girlfriends home! So "just laying there" was not a issue!
2006-12-01 11:55:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, if you aren't close enough to the guy you are going to give this precious girft to to talk to him about this and expect that he will be compassionate, you shouldn't have sex with him.
2006-12-01 11:43:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my advice for you don`t lose Ur virginity until you got married
2006-12-01 11:43:51 · answer #8 · answered by kareem r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋