I like this boy and he said that he liked me too. People started to spread rumours about us and when they were talking about me i felt that he shouldve stuck up for me. Now he is saying that this didnt happen overnight and another girl is telling me that he likes her and they "mess with" each other. Should i beleive her and leave him alone like she wants or should i give him another chance and keep making myself the center of some very nasty rumours?
2006-12-01 03:27:01 · 13 answers · asked by sexxi_pink_gurl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Have you asked him about the other girl? that is the one who you need to ask, he can tell you if anything happened between them. Don't listen to peoples nasty rumors, one day it is you they are talking about, and another day it is someone else! Hold your head up high, and try and do the right things. don't forget to hit the books hard, that is what comes first!
2006-12-01 03:46:03 · answer #1 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should not be required to suffer just because you happen to love someone. Love is supposed to give you that extra sense of importance. You should be the center of his attention and the source of inspiration for him, not make you feel like a burden on him. If you did matter to your bf, he would have stood for you, you are right. I would ask him to decide what he wants, and if he shows any hesitance, leave him to the ***** that he seems to care about.
2006-12-01 11:32:12 · answer #2 · answered by seek_fulfill 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey hes not worth it find someone who wont have a friend bug you about what they do. rumors are the bad part of love and more just tell him as long as he lets the rumors keep going and her bugging you that you no longer need him and you can move on.
2006-12-01 11:31:54 · answer #3 · answered by brandy_hollifield2000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should ask him directly about what the other girl said and tell him that you expect him to defend you if he hears rumors. See how he responds and go from there.
2006-12-01 11:30:05 · answer #4 · answered by Aloe-ish-us 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think that you need to confront him with it. Ask him straight up if he is lieing to you or if he even likes you. I think that honesty is the best policy!! Good Luck i hope it works out ....BUT if he breaks your heart hes probably not worth it!! By the way this is DERRICKS WIFE haha not Derrick
2006-12-01 11:31:56 · answer #5 · answered by Amanda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to move on, especially if you are already having doubts. You dont need the hassle of rumors n such. Make him old news!
2006-12-01 11:36:56 · answer #6 · answered by Nixxi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you worried about hurting this girl or yourself. You have to talk to both of them. If you are worried about hurting this girl, then if you can step back, try. But, if you aren't worried about her, stand your ground and confront him. Don't back down, talk to him and make it right.
2006-12-01 11:36:47 · answer #7 · answered by steven k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well what you need to do is talk to him and ask him should you give him another chance and while your at it ask him if he's ''messing'' with that girl.
2006-12-01 11:30:46 · answer #8 · answered by ANNA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just move on
2006-12-01 11:31:49 · answer #9 · answered by don w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You seriously need to drop him try to forget you ever met him asap
2006-12-01 11:30:42 · answer #10 · answered by KerryAnn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋