We had a very rocky relationship but he said he moved because of his love for me, the fact that we weren't together anymore. His new location is where he once lived, with ex girlfriends and such. He called when he got his phone hooked up and says now he is too busy and will get back to me when he has a chance. Should I just ignore any response I get from him? Please help
2006-12-01 03:22:48 · 12 answers · asked by wonderin2 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Move on honey, he has.
2006-12-01 03:25:02 · answer #1 · answered by E B 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you need to move away from your divorced hubby for good. it's not worth continuing if he constantly hurts you. I can't tell or say where you should go, but you need to start over, a new leaf. Make sure he's never in your life again, because he ain't worth the trouble. You're stressed out and such. I say, sell your place, transfer your work into a different part of the country, do something to relieve yourself so this thing doesn't bother you again. This is not a short process, but it is a start. I would start a new leaf, start a new life, and go from there. Who knows, along the way, you may come across another man who would keep as his soul-mate. All you got to do is make it that choice and do it and support it 100%. You have to believe you can do it and I know you can do it. You've been strong for so long, and you can continue that strength far far away from him. Good luck in your life... hope is better than the last one.
2016-05-23 07:48:47 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can if you feel, once in a while give him a call. But do not do it often, because he can call too! Move on with your life, because it seems as if he has, and I would not want to think you are home waiting for him. Remember life is for the living, so enjoy yourself!
2006-12-01 03:28:19 · answer #3 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably is too busy to talk, moving away into a new state is time consuming and he's probably trying to get his life in order, you should fill up your free-time with something you enjoy so you don't have as much time to think about what he's thinking!
2006-12-01 03:26:11 · answer #4 · answered by sarabmw 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since he is an ex, I think you need to move on with your life, unless there are kids involved.
Unless you plan on getting back together in the near future (unlikely since he's move so far away) it will only cause you both heartache to keep in touch.
2006-12-01 03:26:23 · answer #5 · answered by welches_grape_jelly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chances are ... you're not going to get any response from him. He moved to another state ... if that isn't a hint then I don't know what is. Leave him alone, don't call or e-mail and move on.
2006-12-01 03:25:47 · answer #6 · answered by OohLaLa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him exactly how you feel. listen to what he says. maybe he really is busy...maybe he's trying to find himself....but let him know the truth. don't push him away...you may regret that later on. just be honest from the start...see where it leads you...and figure out what you really want. if you've been dating that long...you can confide in this person i'm guessing.
2006-12-01 03:26:30 · answer #7 · answered by blah123456 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is your ex for a reason. I would just move on without him in your life.
2006-12-01 03:25:19 · answer #8 · answered by tannedknight45 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well you shouldn't try to win him back just go for a friendship
2006-12-01 03:25:54 · answer #9 · answered by super_man_4888 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you should he has probably moved on and youshould tooo
2006-12-01 03:26:41 · answer #10 · answered by angie f 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋