So there's this guy i like named andre. I see him every day in the hall at school and we make eye contact a lot and he smiles at me but weve never talked...How could i get his attention? (with out going up and talking to him) I would not have anything to say! and im shy so he would have to talk to me...(i CANT go up to guys!) So what should i look at him like? Or what should i smile like? (no teeth ill look too happy
2006-12-01 03:18:19 · 15 answers · asked by Nessa<3 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he has made eye contact with you - he knows you are around.
Maybe he is very shy too. You should just go to him and say Hi, I am (whatever your name is) how are you? If nothing happens after a basic conversation - move along.
2006-12-01 03:23:07 · answer #1 · answered by bluskygreengrass 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to do something to let him know that you like him otherwise, he'll never know. If he's in the same class, try writing him a note and dropping it on his desk as you walk by. Tell him how you feel but try not to overdo it cause you don't want him to think you're obsessed. Make sure you ask questions that require only 'yes' or 'no' answers. You'll know for sure how he feels and you won't have to worry about embarrassing situations. If he's not in any of your classes, you could either get a friend to relay the message, or you can go against being shy and just talk to him. Sometimes friends aren't very dependable, especially friends in school cause everything's always drama drama drama. Be confident and take things into your own hands and talk to him, you have nothing to lose. Guys love girls who are confident.
2006-12-01 11:33:34 · answer #2 · answered by ♥aNgeL eYeS♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say it, but your best option is to approach him. hands down, it works every time.
Other options since you're shy....
Talk to women he's friends with. Ask questions about him. Let them know, you're interested. He'll find out through the grape vine. The nice thing about this is... if he likes you, he'll take this information as a sign to approach you. If he doesn't like you, you'll hear about it from your friends. Hopefully he's nice enough not to try and embarrass you.
Again, the best option is to say hi. Really, that's all you have to say. don't even have to stop walking.. just say hi. If he likes you... he may stop you for conversation.
Although your shy, try to get over the "talking to boys" issue. it'll really help you in many ways in the future. Talking to people for school, work, and dealing with family issues when you're older, is very important. Better to learn how to deal with it now, than later.
Good luck!
I hope he talks to you, and you don't feel awkward about it!
mj
2006-12-01 11:29:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The next day at school wear something that will catch his eye and smile real flirty like maybe he would talk to you. If you know any of his friends ask them about him and see if they could talk to him for you.
2006-12-01 11:24:17 · answer #4 · answered by Cassie G <3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well don't make the move if you do, you're only going to play into his hand and that can get pretty complicated. If he really like you then he'll come to you and ask you out. Don't the be the victim girl be the playa. *wink*
2006-12-01 11:30:53 · answer #5 · answered by keira m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well...
It was the same w/
What I’ve experienced
Before!!! But I got him!!! I simply
Move the way
What i feel...like
Smiling!! no words
Comes from me, and i
Never
told him that i love him...
get his cp # and text him
as a friend! if he will
bite it… means a lot
of love
for you...okay?
good luck..pls add me,jhudz_91@yahoo.com
Thanks!
2006-12-01 11:31:48 · answer #6 · answered by Judith I 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
...what ARE you willing to do... honestly if you like this guy... you have to put forth some effort...... he might find that attractive... some guys don't like having to make the moves.... some guys find it extremely attractive for a girl to approach them..... i mean you won't even smile for the guy... he may not even know you like him.... he may think your uninterested.... let him know he couldn't be more wrong and spark up a conversation...just.. say hi... how are you?.... now that's not that bad.. i say that to people i don't know everyday just to be polite!!
...loosin up gurl!!...take a chance!!!...who knows... he might be worth it!!
GOOD LUCK!!!!
2006-12-01 11:25:10 · answer #7 · answered by honey_coated_love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm just like you -- I can't go up to guys that I like and just start talking to them...I don't know why. But I'm gonna tell you what my best friend told me -- wing it. Just go up to him and say hi. If he has yahoo IM or AIM and you do too, IM him. who knows? he might like you too
2006-12-01 11:24:01 · answer #8 · answered by stormi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find stuff that yall have in common. Show up places that you both are interested in. And if he likes you he will come up to you. Good luck!
2006-12-01 11:23:12 · answer #9 · answered by Marlena 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So its obcious that you have already gotten his attention. What you need to do now is go up and talk to him. It won't be as bad as you think. Just do it..
2006-12-01 11:38:46 · answer #10 · answered by ((♥)) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋