ok he cheats on me with his ex apologizes in a big show off way and i let him back in. then she moves back here and he tells me he wont talk to her but then they have a class together and i waited for him and they both came out of the class room last talking up a storm and he hugged here good bye in front of my and wouldn't hold my hand till she was gone. and he's not meeting me to walk to class certin classes together sence she got back. what should i do?
2006-12-01 03:17:51 · 36 answers · asked by Devin 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dont wait for your feeling for him to get stronger let him go enjoy your self and at a given time you will find someone better
2006-12-01 03:29:03 · answer #1 · answered by starlight♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he is trying to have 2 girlfriends. I say you give him an ultimatum. Tell him either to stop seeing you or to stop talking to whats her name and walk you to you classes like a real boyfriend. Let him choose what to do, if he really loves you he will stop talking to this girl. If you really want this guy, show that girl that he is with you by holding him in front of her. There is a chance that she doesn't know he has a girl.
2006-12-01 03:24:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what u need 2 do is get rid of him. u deserve better and its obvious that he still has something 4 her and he is playing u as the fool because he know he can always come running back 2 u if things dont go right with him and her u have made yourself avaible 2 him and now that he knows that he is going to use u.
Honey u deserve better and there is someone out there who will love and appreciate you, he is not the only one on this planet. You have 2 learn 2 love and let love go!!!!!!!
Be strong you will get over him and it will be his lost not yours. Always remember that!!!
2006-12-01 03:27:19 · answer #3 · answered by Kiwi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him. He apparently still has feelings for her and he wants to have his cake and eat it too. It sounds like he is just stringing you along till he finds out if they can get back together. I know that's not what you wanted to hear but that's most likely what's going on. Try talking to him to explain to him how his actions make you feel, just be straight out with him. If his behavior doesn't change after you've talked then it's time to let him go.
2006-12-01 03:23:06 · answer #4 · answered by Wiked 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing u could do is confront him with how u r feelin..... Then ask him if anything is going on with him and her or if he regrets leavin her... so after u have confonted him he is still the same then it is up to u whether u think he will be faithful or not.. if there is doubt m8 then i think it is time to leave... chances are he will cheat again if the oppurtunity arises
2006-12-01 03:23:14 · answer #5 · answered by angelindisguise 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have had numerous relationships like that, young lady. I must say I enjoy helping with these types of questions because I was the queen of getting hurt by cheating guys. I was tired of it, crying all the time, calling females houses. I had the same trouble with my boyfriend cheating on me with his ex. I tell you I am happy now more than I've ever been, I have peace, I have encountered real love. I don't have to worry anymore. I can lay my head down at night and sleep without tossing and turning from being worried about who he's with or what he is doing. I have a trustworthy relationship now. I asked this person why do guys cheat, the answer was, you will not be happy in a relationship until you get one with God first. God told me that after years of heartache and pain. He let me know he was the one I was looking for and he was right. Since I have been with him I am so...... happy and content. I have unspeakable joy. I gave my heart to Jesus and he has not hurt me nor will he hurt me. He loves us when no-one else will. Consider salvation and living your life for him, I was a sinner looking for an honest companion but God let me know. If I was living in sin I could not get the good blessings he wanted me to have. I had to get saved from my sins (not in my sins). Sin is this world's whole problem and Jesus is the solution.God will give you what you need if you will humble your heart to him and ask him to save you from your sins. Yo will feel a load lifted off and he will give you his peace. When I got saved all of those things that hurt me was over. I had found someone that was my true friend that I know loved me. God will bless you if you will live for him he will give you someone that will love you for real and they will not cheat if they love God because God is against adultery and fornication. He is against sin. I have been saved for 5 wonderful years without sin by God's grace. He keeps me from sinning against him because he knows I love him. And I want him to be pleased with me. I am separated from my husband because of adultery but God is keeping me happy and I'm waiting on God to bless me. My husband does not want God so he could not love me either. This why people cheat, they do not love God. Remember God is love. The devil is not. Bless you!
2006-12-01 04:08:48 · answer #6 · answered by Denise W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Karma" what goes around comes around.
Rite now hes hurting you but eventually he'll be in a similar if not worse situation where he'll be cheated on by someone he cares for & it may not be by you but rest assured it really happens.
As for yourself u need to take some 'me time' 2 work it out in your head before u make a decision & as soon as u do tings will feel sooooo much better.
2006-12-01 03:31:25 · answer #7 · answered by Shynness 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not tollerate that. You are much better person to deserve that treatment. Nobody deserves to be treated like that. I'm not saying that girls should be treated like a princess but we should be treated better than all our other boyfriends friends that are girls. Just break up with him and find you a good guy that cares about you.
2006-12-01 03:21:14 · answer #8 · answered by Marlena 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well about your question, you should let him go. If he loves you we will look for you, but if he doesnt that means he doesnt love you. If you really cant do this, well then try to talk to him, about watz going on between you, him, and that other gurl. Tinx if your going to give him another chance, cuz if he did it once, hez gonna do it twice. Lister to ur hart, but donn let him get you down. aight gud luk.
2006-12-03 15:24:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him about it. it's not fair if he says one thing and does another - but don't ban him from seeing his ex or he will feel trapped. if he won't talk about it (like many boys - idiots) then maybe it's time to move on before he hurts you even more. if he doesn't respect you he doesn't deserve you. you shouldn't be cheated on, don't keep letting him back in
2006-12-01 03:21:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋