I know that doesn't seem like very long but he will not retern my phone calls and just brushes me off when I try and make plans.... What do I do?
2006-12-01 03:15:24 · 26 answers · asked by autumn 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Drop him
2006-12-01 03:16:34 · answer #1 · answered by Allen L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's not really alot of information here... so it's hard to answer.
Has he done this before? Is he really stressed out about something? Have you recently been fighting? Does he have a reason to be mad at you (ie. you did something stupid)?
It sounds to me, from the limited information you've provided... that he's trying to blow you off.
If you've only been with him a short time.... I'd just walk away. There's no point in pursuing something that he's not interested in.
If you've been with him a long time... I hate to say this, but fight fire with fire. Stop calling him. Stop trying to get in touch with him. Do things for yourself that make you happy. Eventually, he should come around, and wonder why you stopped. Your response to that should be something like "you didn't make it worth my while to keep trying".
If he doesn't ever try... then obviously your relationship is over. Which, although you might be sad and disappointed... you should realize that it's a good thing. A guy that can't confront you face to face to discuss his not wanting to date you...isn't worth dating anymore anyways.
Good luck
mj
2006-12-01 11:20:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Obviously he's not interested in you anymore..more or less he could be in fact cheating. I think you should investigate this a little more if not then tell him it's over. Don't go killing ur self if he's just brushing u off like ur nothing. No respect at all.
2006-12-01 11:17:49 · answer #3 · answered by keira m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first thing you really need to do is......stop calling him and when he calls you....return the favor to him.....brush him off and move on. Obviously he's not trying to work on the relationship. You need to move on and find someone that is wanting to talk to you and call you and not brush you off!! Good luck!!!
2006-12-01 11:21:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried to talk to him. Do you know why yall wavn't talked. Try to talk to him. Find outs what wrong. And if there is a problem talk about it. I promise tomorrow that problem wont even matter. That's what I do with my boyfriend. I hate to go to bed mad. And tomorrow the problem wont even matter. Good luck!
2006-12-01 11:18:47 · answer #5 · answered by Marlena 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he has dumped you, I would leave a message telling him if he doesn't contact you, you will assume that he no longer wants anything to do with you and move on. It may be hard but its better than chasing someone who doesn't wish to be caught
2006-12-01 11:19:22 · answer #6 · answered by t_j_watkins 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
...ask him what the hell is his problem...thats what you do!!!!....
....no really.... give him some space. if he isn't mature enough to tell you what's going on... then honestly he isn't mature enough to be in a relationship with!!.... but he may be going through something...you have to look at all the possiblities. let him know that you are there for him..... if he doesn't come around soon.... just slowly start to accept the fact that he may not want to be with you anymore... it may hurt.. but its a h.e.l.l of alot worst than driving yourself crazy over it or him getting the satisfaction of you not being able to recognize whats going on and let go....
GOOD LUCK!!!!
2006-12-01 11:20:51 · answer #7 · answered by honey_coated_love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you are over if his recent actions are any indication of how he will continue treating you....there is only one reason as to why someone would do that, to make you have to break up with him.. give him the chance to explain, then if nothing ...break up
2006-12-01 11:22:37 · answer #8 · answered by DANNY B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cool off for a bit..maybe he needs some space. and while you're doing that make plans with friends and meet new people so if you do split up you won't be quite so miserable. if he still ignores you he's a loser and doesn't deserve you.
2006-12-01 11:19:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Realize that he is in Phase I of the plan called "I'm not your boyfriend anymore." Spare him (and yourself) Phases II and III, especially Phase IV. Move on.
2006-12-01 11:18:04 · answer #10 · answered by Rvn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignor the guy. And when he starts paying attention to u just blow him off like he did u
2006-12-01 11:18:45 · answer #11 · answered by Imma_G_grrl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋