If a girl says she will call, but doesn't call you....then what do you do. This girl is leading me on, but disappears, then magically reappears again! She says we'll always cool, but when I text her we have a 6 text conversation and then leaves me hanging. What kind of crap is this?!
2006-12-01 03:11:36 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She is using you for her own convenience. Forget her and find someone worthy of you. There are many women out there...just depends on where you are looking!
2006-12-01 03:14:35 · answer #1 · answered by ladygwen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, if you are a man, be a man and let her worry about herself. A strong man doesn't "need" a woman around, so pull your focus back off of her and put it somewhere else. focus on what makes you happy and let her come and go as she pleases. In fact, flirt with another girl if you feel so compelled to do so. Its fine to give girls attention, but don't invest feelings in a girl thats this spotty and insubstantial. Be yourself, despite whatever she's doing, live your own life and when you feel the urge to keep watching for her when she disappears, divert to something else. She needs to learn that she can't play you, bud. You gotta be the stronger one here and you are entirely capable of leading your own life and happiness. Make her play by your rules when it comes to your happiness. Your heart (as well as your sanity) deserves as much.
2006-12-01 11:24:47 · answer #2 · answered by guardian707 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Women" in general play as many games as men do....they I'll call you then dont isnt specific to women. Maybe you have different expectations from the relationship than she does. If this has been going on for awhile, I would suggest turning your affections towards someone else and see what happens! I have found, that with BOTH sexes, people tend to want who they can't have and if she feels she is losing your affection, she will come back.
2006-12-01 11:16:45 · answer #3 · answered by Janet C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you let her. Its the type of crap that happens when some girls know you like them. You're best bet is to turn the tables around and play the game but you have to be the one leaving her dangling.
2006-12-01 11:16:25 · answer #4 · answered by pradavee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she didn't call you because she was to busy or forgot. She might had to end the text conversation because her mom got on to her. Not all girls play games and when we do it is just to see how much the guy likes us or just to have fun.
2006-12-01 11:15:01 · answer #5 · answered by Crazy K. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I honestly don't know why girls play games. I don't. My only guess is that she is trying to find out if you really like her by making you "chase" after her. What I think you should do is tell her that you don't like it and that since you guys are two grown adults than she should act like one. She will only keep on doing it if you allow her too. Tell her what's on your mind. If she changes, good, but if she doesn't you should let her go and try to find someone else.
2006-12-01 11:17:53 · answer #6 · answered by luv 4 dogs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we play hard to get because it makes you want us more! plus women think that guys should do the chasing so call her and pin her down for a date, she probably likes you but is scared of rejection. maybe if she still is being off tell her that you like her, and if that doesn't work cool off and play hard to get so she'll give you more interest. good luck!
2006-12-01 11:16:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's either just bored and wants to have a guy to play with when she has nothing better to do, OR she really likes you and is scared of it, and is trying REALLY hard not to come off too desprate! All you can do is confront her and ask what she wants.
2006-12-01 11:15:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She likes the attention. You're a convinent-attention grabber. You provide her with the attention she wants when she wants it. If she really wanted you, she wouldn't play games like that unless...that is her game, to get you all confused and confess your feelings first....hmmm
2006-12-01 11:15:19 · answer #9 · answered by Mimy ImFurst 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's probably not wanting anything serious with you. Maybe just as a friend. Stop talking to her if it bothers you.
2006-12-01 11:15:38 · answer #10 · answered by inlovewow 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋