Well in many relationships the boy either cheats or sometime's it can be the girl.Everyone know's it'svery painful.
But what would you do if it happened to you?
How would you feel?
Would you tak revenge?? or what??
2006-12-01 03:08:31 · 22 answers · asked by Marjorie O 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Drop him! Feel the pain you need to, eat ice cream, watch chick flicks. Then if you really want revenge. Date someone else, and make sure he sees it. You could even have a guy friend pose as a BF to make your ex realise what he did. That way he at least won't cheat on the next girl
2006-12-01 03:11:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
It is better to have loved than never have been loved at all. This is a famous phrase and it is true. However if you are being cheated on by a girl or boy then smile and walk away. Smile since you can look for someone that will be yours and yours alone and in love with you. Revenge is futile and serves no purpose, it will not bring them back or make you feel better. Move on with your life and learn from the experience. Were they signs he or she was a player? Look back and be aware next time you go out dating of what to avoid.
2006-12-01 03:31:09 · answer #2 · answered by expert_dating 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well speaking of this, this just recently happened to me and yes its very painful because i trusted her very much. I felt so hurt like i didn't deserve this I'm the most wonderful girl you could ever meet why would someone want to hurt me like that? I don't really know if taking revenge would help the situation but i just cried a little and am now trying to get over it so i could move on because tomorrow is never promised today. I don't wanna be stuck on someone who hurt me and will continue to do the same thing.
2006-12-01 03:15:11 · answer #3 · answered by *~Pretty Smile~* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would feel pissed off and angry in that situation.... but also in the same token i wouldn't want to get revenge in any hateful manner because that would be as low as them.. i think the best form of revenge is gettin on with ur life and show them just how much better off u r without them.....
2006-12-01 03:31:01 · answer #4 · answered by angelindisguise 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been married for 8 years...I think I would have to leave him. I just couldn't be with someone who would give themselves to someone else...especially after all this time together. Revenge is fruitless and you usually being the one feeling guilty after. I wouldn't want to get married again though. Cheating kills a marriage and any relationship. You just can't mend that.
2006-12-01 03:13:42 · answer #5 · answered by Amy 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't take revenge. You can technically feel gutted but you dont' have to. If you think that the person is a pile of sh*t and unworthy to bother, the best way is really to competely ignore. Sh*t goes down the bog, remember.
2006-12-01 03:19:10 · answer #6 · answered by shortnotsilly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its happened to me once.. my boyfriend cheated on me with my friend at my best friends wedding.. i was gutted, but i just walked out, never said a word to him ,never answered any of his calls or messages until i met him again about a month later.. he apologised and asked if i would take him back - i obviously did not but the fact that i did not have a huge fit and walked out with dignity is killing him so much more than me takin revenge.. i do talk to him now and then .. but i will never take him back.....
2006-12-01 05:02:38 · answer #7 · answered by sanj.. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its happened to me and yeah it does hurt, it brings down your confidence and makes you feel insecure all the time. It made me depressed and start to question my morals as at first i just couldn't leave him. I then started to resent myself for wanting someone who did so wrong to me, then i resented him for resenting myself, which caused untold arguments and fights, i have now left him, i feel much better in regards to my self-esteem and repsect for myself, but i still feel depressed cause he has been a big part of my life for 4 years. Revenge is just immature. The best revenge is to leave them, they will sooner or later feel the guilt. Its inevitable.
Revenge only shows them that they have effected you and you still hold feelings, which makes them hold on and keep hounding you until you feel sorry for them and "forgive" them. I should no. lol.
But if it does happen to you, just move on, STRAIGHT AWAY. Dont hold back, you only get one life, dont waste it on a tosser.
2006-12-01 03:20:08 · answer #8 · answered by london lady 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I have always been too sweet to be used thank God. The current bf I have has used 2500 girls but after a year of being with me we are going to get married ! (hopefully) If he did break up with me I would stay friends with him so he could continue to help me out, I need alot of help in my circumstances.
2006-12-01 03:45:45 · answer #9 · answered by Kendra H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gutted when it happens to you. You can only forgive or move on. If you are able to forgive - good for you - its not easy. Or move on - don't look back . There's more dignity in not seeking revenge - but its so human to do so. Good luck.
2006-12-01 03:31:57 · answer #10 · answered by hugbobs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋