my dad told me that i need to lose weight i told him i heard that having sex is the best way to lose weight and i said maybe i should start having sex i just wroe him and told him i need birth control pills i explained to him he always told me if i thoght about having sex to let him know and he will by me some pills or whatever i am a 16 year old and still attend high school what should i do am going to start exercising and everything should i have sex or no im still a virgin i kow my bf is the right one for me i just know
2006-12-01 03:04:15 · 24 answers · asked by Pooh Bear 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't have sex just to lose weight!! That would be so sad! Wait until you are ready, whether that be once you are married, or once you meet someone that you feel comfortable enough to share that with!!
But please don't do it just to lose weight!! You would have to have a lot of sex to lose much!!
2006-12-01 03:06:53 · answer #1 · answered by Sandy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, have sex. You don't need the birth control pills so long as your partner uses a condom.
Side effects from birth control pills:
-irregular/manipulated menstrual cycle
-sporatic weight gain/loss
-mood swings
-costs money!
And as a recommendation, I'd keep your father out of your sex life. It's cool that he supports you, but don't use him for birth control pills, you can buy them yourself if you must. If you're going to have sex, at least try to be independent.
2006-12-01 11:16:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems to me this is a serious issue. How can you discuss such things with your father? And second of all even if sex is the best way to lose weight (which is not) your 16 years old! you too young and getting to things such as that will effect you in the near future if you want to lose weight be active and be happy with your self. Your father is the one that need to correct his act.
2006-12-01 11:07:57 · answer #3 · answered by keira m 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
While having sex does increase your heart rate and offer you some exercise, you would need to have a good hour session each day to really see any benefit from it health wise. I think you already know the answer to your question anyway and are just trying to hurt you fathers feelings since he hurt yours. Dont be petty, it just isnt good.
2006-12-01 11:10:03 · answer #4 · answered by Allinwiththenuts 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont even think about it........just because u need to lose weight doesnt mean that u start having sex as it is "the best physical exercise".im a 15 yr old teenager 2 nd thats y m tellin ya........my frnds have done all this stuff and all theyve landed is getting their girlfriends pregnant.....nd u neva noe of AIDS nd also today is world Aids day......dont do this k
2006-12-01 11:14:35 · answer #5 · answered by ayushchocky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is not the best way for a 16 yr old to lose weight. The best way to lose is to exercise daily and eat right. Check out; http://www.webmd.com and http://www.kotex.com
2006-12-01 11:11:05 · answer #6 · answered by pradavee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
woah hold on sex is for joining with someone in the deepest way possible not weight loss. here are countless ways to lose weight ask us that question "how do i lose weight" because getting pregnant will certainly not help you lose weight and catching a disease will not help your self esteem so if yur boyfriend is the one go to Planned parenthood or your doctor togher to get STD tests and a birthcontrol method BEFORE you give him your virginty or get married then go to the doctor
2006-12-01 11:10:17 · answer #7 · answered by benbear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would stick to working out for now. Sex doesn't really burn that many calories and you'll be happy you waited at least a couple of more years to have sex. Almost every woman I know who became sexually active in their teens regrets not waiting.
2006-12-01 11:11:06 · answer #8 · answered by grizzly_r 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NOOOOOO! You are way too young to get caught up in the emotional rollercoaster that goes along with having sex, there are much healthier ways to lose weight. Your only going to hurt yourself and your dad this way.
2006-12-01 11:07:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No don't do it. How do you feel you just know at the age of 16. There are a lot of people who thought they knew and it turned out to be that they didn't know it would be the way it is.
2006-12-01 11:23:03 · answer #10 · answered by T. S. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋