idk what to do, cause she really likes him still and so do i
but he likes me and not her.
2006-12-01 03:03:01 · 31 answers · asked by JEn K 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I honestly agree with all the comments here. What would you feel if one of your friends hooked up with your ex BF that you still care about??? You should think over this if you want your friendship to last. Guys come and go but TRUE friends are hard to find.... just try to visualize if you are on that situation... What would YOU do.
2006-12-01 11:09:35 · answer #1 · answered by Terry Chan 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you only waited a week? you just broke the friendship code of ethics. NEVER date anyone your friend might date, plans to date or has dated no matter how far in the past it was. don't even entertain the thought of breaking those rules if your friend means anything to you. guys will come and go but friendship is supposed to last forever. not only are you considered second best but you weren't even a friend to your friend. how would you feel if she dated your ex? and why would you want someone your friend had anyway? ever heard of "sloppy seconds"? ewww...gross! and think about this, if he'd do that to her then what makes you think he won't do the same to you? so glad you're no friend of mine.
2006-12-01 11:16:28 · answer #2 · answered by NoDeal21 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow, talk about a backstabber to a good friend. Do you realize how much more pain you put her through? You should break up with him until you realize that you should be dating guys who your friend has NOT... I repeat, HAS NOT recently broken up with. I play the dating game here and there, and I know that it's not the brightest thing in the world to go about dating your best friend's ex-b/f. Think about what you are doing because that could evry easily break up friendship ties with your friend.
2006-12-01 11:07:55 · answer #3 · answered by Cold Fart 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You call her your friend? I am confused. Because friends just do not do that to each other. You crossed a line that friends do not cross. You should have never got involved with friends your friends ex. especially when you know your friend is still broken up over it.
Shame on you.
The only thing you can do is come clean with your friend, stay away from the boy and beg for your friends forgiveness and hope she gives it to you.
2006-12-01 11:07:20 · answer #4 · answered by Issym 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow you're a really great friend (hope you notice the sarcasm there...). How selfish can one be to forfeit their friendship with someone as well as hurt them more then they are already hurting by being so consumed with the guy who broke her heart. Why don't you control your emotions back off from the guy and be honest with your friend and be mature enough to handle and deal with any backlash that you get (because you deserve it). If you choose staying with this guy, I hope that he does the same thing to you in the future.
2006-12-01 11:15:37 · answer #5 · answered by serenity113001 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you really cared about your friend, you would not have gotten with her ex within a week of the breakup that devastated her.
If you want to be friends with your friend, stop seeing her ex. If you want to lose the friendship with her, go ahead and keep sleeping with the ex, she'll realize that you're not her friend and won't want anything to do with you.
2006-12-01 11:06:13 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You have to chose between the two. Do you see yourself getting married to him? I had to make the same choice. We got married 1-1/2 year later and will be celebrating 4 years of marriage on the 30th.!
2006-12-01 11:08:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Looks like you dont mind sloppy seconds. You are a terrible friend. You should stop seeing him, there are many fish in the sea, but few best friends. Stop being selfish!
2006-12-01 11:05:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
You have to talk with youre friend . if you think she wont like you two hooked up, then you need to choose: a boyfriend of a freind. that's the bottom line. if you decide to talk with your freind, you should expect to get yelled at alot, but if youre close freinds, then itll blow over.
2006-12-01 11:08:10 · answer #9 · answered by ? 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I would tell your friend the truth cause hiding it from her is bad and if she finds it out she might get mad. So sit down with her and tell her the truth. If she's your real friend she won't get mad. Don't break up with him because your worried that your friend will get mad stay with him and if it still fells wrong then if you want to you can break up with him.
2006-12-01 11:13:50 · answer #10 · answered by ♥Kaitlyn♥ 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋