feeling out my new relationship?

Question

I met this new guy and i really like him. We have only been out on a date once but we have been talking for about a month now. We both work alot and I have a chils so it is hard to find time. Last night he invited me to go with him to his company Chriatmas party. It is an overnite trip about an hour out of tow. What I am confused about is the way that he asked me. He told me that ther was a girl that is just a "really good friend of his that was supposed to go but he can't get in touch with her but he would really like me to go instead. I feel sordof like plan b and I don't like that feeling. Should I be angry at this? Also I am scared that if i do go that things might happen and it would be moving to fast?

Answer 1

If you have only been on one date in a month and he has mentioned this other girl "friend," I would be suspicious that he may be seeing other women. Which is fine, really, since you two have only been out once. However, he should be up front and let you know that you are not exclusive so that you can make an informed choice about getting physical with him. After one date, I would probably not want to do an overnight trip with him. Take it slow, especially since you have a child to worry about.

Answer 2

don't go. it is alot to ask first of all seeing that you've only been out together once. and what's that, i tried to get someone else to go first but... sounds like he just don't want to sleep alone. Good Luck and careful every step with this one.

Answer 3

Don't go - your plan b and its an overnight trip for a SECOND meeting (I am not even going to call it a date) Sounds like slime to me.

Answer 4

I was feeling out my new relationship this morning, just like I do every morning. Then my hand got sticky and I came to work.

Answer 5

yep you are plan B.. so you had better give him one GREAT B.J. on the way there and go for some really CRAZY sex at the motel, or at the 'party'