My boyfriend of 2 years just told me lastnight that he had sex with someone else we live in different states and i havent been with anyone but him, i love him so much that i was willing to forgive him and move on but he said that he cant be with me right now knowing what he did im a very kindhearted person and forgiving but do you think that i am too much??? my feelings for him are very deep but he thinks that i should give it time the relationship i mean to air out because of what he did, so should i stay or let go???
2006-12-01 02:59:17 · 8 answers · asked by Dimplez87 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm sorry but that sounds to me like an excuse to continue his behavior and it can't be called cheating because you are kind of in limboland.... you do need some time to think... and remember if they will do it once... most likely they will do it again...I'm sorry because I know where you are coming from having just been told last week mine is seeing someone else(same state, different cities) and he told me he isn't in love with her but just a way to occupy his time... talk about an a**hole. Hang in there.. it will get better.
2006-12-01 03:12:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let go I've done been there but in my case this guy was my first Love and he's ingaged and I had realize that it was time to move on and he called me last night and told me that he still loved me and that he would always love me cause I was his first love but he just wanted to be friends and he even went to see me but um... yeah were gonna stay best friends so just move on it's for the best you don't want a guy that's gonna cheat on you!
Good Luck with your choice!
2006-12-01 11:09:37 · answer #2 · answered by Lil' Momma 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ultimately, it's tp to you. But, even though you were in different states, you were still together, and he cheated. Something similar happened to me, only I forgave him, and stuck with it. He said he was sorry, and that it wouldn't happen again, IT DID! He cheated on me three times before I finally cut him loose. If it were me, I'd drop him. Once a cheater.... Sorry babe, but I'd move on! Good Luck!!!
2006-12-01 11:04:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let him go. I have a feeling that he is no longer emotionally available to you. He cheated on you, and once a cheater, always a cheater.
2006-12-01 11:02:09 · answer #4 · answered by tannedknight45 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let him go - he made a mistake and he knows he made one and he is trying to let you down easy. Move on he is telling you to!!
2006-12-01 11:04:31 · answer #5 · answered by HereweGO 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if he wants to be with you, then be with him, else let go.
2006-12-01 11:04:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
do you really believe this skunk?
LOL
2006-12-01 11:02:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have no choice.......................let go.
2006-12-01 11:02:28 · answer #8 · answered by Gasman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋