I was seeing this person for 4 years and we broke up, we both started seeing other people, he choose to let his new gf move it, well he never loved her and we both still are in love with each other. I came back into his life 7 months ago and we decided we want to be together. He has told her their relationship is over but didn't tell her why. She is now dragging her feet moving out of his house and I think he should be honest with her. She I just make the move and tell her? Or should I just sit back and wait.
2006-12-01 02:57:51 · 9 answers · asked by Lisa G 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
why doesn't he make her go.... he should do that... not you... maybe he is trying to play both of you....
2006-12-01 03:09:30 · answer #1 · answered by lisyliz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to consider what your motivation for telling her really is. Sounds like he broke her heart so the least you can do is chill for a minute and give her time to move out. The two of you had problems before so perhaps you should wait before moving back in with him, maybe take things a little slower this time. Boy his place is just a revolving door isnt it.
2006-12-01 03:05:41 · answer #2 · answered by Allinwiththenuts 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why does she need to know now ?? The relationship is over so whats the point ? You probably only want to hurt her with the info. And remember, he cheated on her so chances are he will cheat on you too. Just be kind to the poor girl and let her leave not knowing what a jack*ss he was.
2006-12-01 03:06:56 · answer #3 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if there relationship is over she doesn't have to know that he cheated on her with you or even that he left her for you. But he sould tell her the two of you are back together. Why hasn't he pushed her along? Maybe you should talk to her and see what her side of things are. Not in a threatening manner but woman to woman.
2006-12-01 03:03:22 · answer #4 · answered by cromswife 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why can he not do her the courtesy of telling her himself? He should have told her why he was breaking up with her. This is completely unfair to you. I would give him a time frame to tell her or you are moving on with your life. You cannot wait around on him forever. Good Luck!
2006-12-01 03:05:21 · answer #5 · answered by Michelle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ALWAYS COMPLETE ONE RELATIONSHIP BEFORE STARTING ANOTHER. YOU NEED TO STEP BACK AND LET HIM COMPLETE HIS DUTY, IF THAT IS WHAT HE WANTS.
2006-12-01 03:07:24 · answer #6 · answered by nwnativeprincess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
2006-12-01 03:00:31 · answer #7 · answered by brat71825 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If anyone should tell her, it should be him
2006-12-01 03:00:20 · answer #8 · answered by antoinasia 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ask yourself this..would you want to know?
2006-12-01 02:59:31 · answer #9 · answered by Tek ~aka~Legs! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋