ya ever hear of that? i was watching a show on HBO last night and this japaneese adult film maker clames that he can channel powerfull orgasms. the girls he was doing it too seemed to enjoy it and i am sure they were not faking it. i dont think you can fake that much enjoyment.
2006-12-01 02:57:21 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I find it funny how many guys tend to be clueless about female orgasms...
I won't so much call it "channeling", but a guy can control to a high degree when and how powerful his partner's orgasm is. Ever heard the phrase "It's not the size that matters, but the motion of the ocean."?
Stimulation and arousal controls how powerful an orgasm is, for both men and women. But the rate at which women and men become aroused is different (a scientifically proven fact). A woman's arousal is slower and doesn't peak like a man’s.
Think of it in terms of a mountain. A man's arousal rate is full of steep cliffs with an impressive summit at the top. A woman's arousal is full of gentler slopes and valleys with a plateau instead of a sharp peak at its center.
In order to maximize a woman's orgasm, her partner needs to understand where and how to stimulate her to bring her arousal to that plateau and hold her there. Her partner can actually keep her in an almost nonstop orgasm over a short period (a couple of minutes at the most).
Also, women can have multiple orgasms if her partner has intimate knowledge of her arousal zones. I've been told that these orgasms aren't as pleasurable as the final orgasm with the partner, but they are still very much enjoyable. I think this is more of a psychological pleasure of the shared intimacy than due to actual stimulation.
There is no easy answer of how to do either of these. They are tricks you'll have to learn yourself because it varies greatly from woman to woman. This is one of the reasons I'm perfectly happy only being with one woman. The longer you are with someone, the more you learn about their needs, thus the more pleasure you can give each other.
Assuming both partners actually care enough to learn about what their partner likes and dislikes...
I wouldn't doubt that the pornstars in the show you were watching could have been faking, but the ideology behind the subject does carry truth. My suggestion is to pick up a "How to improve your sex life" type book and give it a good read through. Even if you think your great in bed already, I'm sure you'll learn something that will improve your sex skills even more.
2006-12-01 03:29:11 · answer #1 · answered by Ritz Grimarren 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe a female's brain shuts down more because of the intensity of the orgasm and the sensitivity we experience. I was told once that a man's orgasm is like a bee sting, and a woman's is like an earthquake, but I really don't know.
2016-05-23 07:45:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure - i have had orgasms watching many channels on TV....what's that? oh - never mind
2006-12-01 03:45:01 · answer #3 · answered by Jim G 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm, let's see, porn ACTRESSES, It's called acting, faking. Wake up!
2006-12-01 03:02:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
wanna bet? ;o) LOL
2006-12-01 03:01:02 · answer #5 · answered by Tek ~aka~Legs! 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋