I'm a guy who is told I'm very attractive & a good person with a great personality.
But I can't get dates, I only had 1 girlfriend and I'm 21, what am I doing wrong, I try to understand this but it's confuses me, what makes you not want to date a guy.
And what do you think I'm doing wrong, when it comes to women?
Thanks
2006-12-01 02:55:54 · 19 answers · asked by crazy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well for one, women don't like guys who think they are prettier than them. This may not correspond with you, but some guys are too far up their own backsides it's untrue.
If you have a good personality, then you're on the right track to getting a girlfriend. Looks and physical attraction is just a bonus. ;D
The best thing to do when attempting to get a girlfriend, is find someone you like and enjoy spending time with. Once you've found someone like that, get to know them better, learn what they like, ect. Soon you should be so in tune with each other, that its impossible not to start dating.
Maybe you havent had more dates, because you just havent found that special someone.
Good luck hunni. Hope you meet a nice girl to date soon.
2006-12-01 03:02:43 · answer #1 · answered by Nikki A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your best bet is to get to know a lot of people and to have no expectations. Be happy with yourself and share that happiness with whoever you encounter through life. People are drawn to happy people. Relationships take time to build. Share details from your life and learn about others. Sometimes a person you like may not like you back in the same way -- that doesn't mean something is wrong with you. It just means that you may not be compatible with that person. If that person doesn't take the chance to get to know you as a person, then that person may be losing out. Every person has something valuable to offer. Just be patient and enjoy life in the meanwhile.
2006-12-02 09:17:09 · answer #2 · answered by snowybostonchicken 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What makes me not want to date a guy? When he's boring, when he's not on the same wavelength as I am, when I don't feel anything for him (doesn't have to be a specific reason for that, just a feeling), when the guy makes me feel uncomfortable, when I know (or have the feeling) he just wants to date me to show me off with his friends (when he only dates me for the way I look), when he starts about being a vegetarian,about how stupid that is,... Lots of reasons, maybe you just haven't come across the right women yet.
2006-12-01 03:09:18 · answer #3 · answered by lieselot h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-16 11:21:58 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually sweetie your not doing anything wrong just relax the right female will come along soon just give it time don't change your great personality because a girl will realize what a good catch you are just be patient
2006-12-01 03:06:13 · answer #5 · answered by Rivelle W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you're trying too hard. relax, instead of asking for dates, why not ask someone to hang out. go for a walk , have coffee. help pick out a cool gift for somone esle or somethng for your home. all these things are casual with no stress or pressure. they all involve conversation. conversation is the best way to get to know someone else. take your time, you'll be ok.
2006-12-01 03:04:58 · answer #6 · answered by NoDeal21 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably a lack of confidence... And there is nothing wrong with having just one girlfriend so far... There is a whole lot of life left to live.
2006-12-01 02:59:09 · answer #7 · answered by mzagge06 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you bold enough to ask women out?
If you are waiting on a girl to ask you, it may never happen.
Are you confident and secure in who you are?
If not, women can pick up on that, and it is a turn off.
Do you put yourself out there? Do you hang out in places where it is possible to meet people?
If not, start!
Good luck to you!!
2006-12-01 03:00:52 · answer #8 · answered by Kailey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your not doing anything wrong, don't look for love, love will find you there is a special person out there waiting for you but she hasn't found you. I just want a guy who loves me for me, cares about me and shows it, honest, faithful, and doesn't hide things from me. Good luck!
2006-12-01 03:02:48 · answer #9 · answered by *~Pretty Smile~* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well for one your crazy, but its probally due to your lack of dating any one that contributes to not being able to date. You need not to be shy, go for what you want, and what you deserve, dont just sit there and look at ladies, go talk to them with whatever you have to offer
2006-12-01 03:15:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋