I guess I was also upset because he doesn't bother doing little things for me, like he used to for his x-wife such as make her lunch and when I asked if he would make me a cup of coffee he made a face like it was a big problem....however I make dinner for both of us most of the time-something she wouldn't do! I feel I'm begin taken for granted!
2006-12-01 02:55:36 · 8 answers · asked by curious 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Absolutely say sorry.... email or text it to him if you're still angry or upset. Tomorrow, go warm up HIS car!! But it's most important to discuss your expectations of him... it's hard not to be 'jealous' of his past relationships, but you must realize that he wants to be with you because of you. Maybe HE felt taken for granted in his last relationship... you might have something else in common...BUT I wouldn't mention that you feel as if you're being taken for granted... FIND something, (anything) he's done and tell him 'thank you so much for doing blah blah blah... I love it when you do things like that.... hug him, kiss him, whatever...and make him feel useful. YOU must really mean it! Appreciation is a big key in success!! And guys need direct communication..don't go over board so he gets weird feelings .Good Luck
2006-12-01 03:06:38 · answer #1 · answered by TRE 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't do the "little things" because he doesn't think of them when it comes to you.
You are being taken for granted. But it's up to YOU how people are ALLOWED to treat you.
Teach him how you want to be treated. Catch the clue if he doesn't respond the way you want him to. He is showing you everyday what he thinks or doesn't think of you.
2006-12-01 11:03:36 · answer #2 · answered by areyoukidding 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you disabled and unable to warm up your own car? If you expect to be treated like a princess, I hope you are treating him like a prince. How he treated his ex is irrelevant. Maybe her expecting to be catered to was a turn off for him and was a factor in their divorce.
2006-12-01 11:02:32 · answer #3 · answered by schweetums 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should get a remote starter for your car, tell your boyfriend thats what you want for christmas. Quit being so demanding and comparing what he did for his xwife and what he does for you. You have to give some to get some.
2006-12-01 11:47:31 · answer #4 · answered by The Mullet 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you should apologize to him. Something to think about you may not be doing the things his ex did to get those things done. You should talk with him. I hope you have not thrown this up about him doing for his ex, to him. Good luck.
2006-12-01 11:08:00 · answer #5 · answered by T. S. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
baby dont feel bad he is still adjusting but yes u should apolijize to night in bed give him a big kiss and do some dirty tricks... he will fix your coffee every morning lol
2006-12-01 11:00:08 · answer #6 · answered by thuggababy15 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Does he always do it? Don't expect him to treat you like his ex. (you might end up being his next)
2006-12-01 10:58:53 · answer #7 · answered by plaidsgoneplatinum 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk with him, say your sorry. You overreacted and then tell him why.
2006-12-01 11:02:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋