i like him a lot i might even love him but im not quite sure what to do i dont want to leave him but even my best friend doesnt think that i should be with him because he might ruin my reputation please help me im desperate. I STILL LOVE HIM though.
2006-12-01 02:33:22 · 7 answers · asked by live life to the fullest 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First of all how old are you? This sounds like something that a teenager maybe worried about. Secondly doesn't you "best friend" have a man? How do you know your "best friend" isn't interested in yours and that why they're telling you to leave him. I'm sure there's more important things in your life to worry about than worry about who likes your man and who doesn't. My question to you would be, if you claim to love him as you say how or why are you entertaining all the negativity that's coming at you from other people. You need to ask yourself do you really love him because if you didn't you wouldn't even be asking the general public what do you do. If he has a brain he should leave you because based on you being so worried about what others think you're not even considering him. Best answer as to what you should do....GROW THE HELL UP!!!!!!
2006-12-01 02:47:01 · answer #1 · answered by Pisces Princess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to ask yourself a few questions.
First, WHY do you love him? If he makes you happy and is sweet to you, that's a good reason. If he is a "bad boy" and that excites you, that's a bad reason because you'll outgrow this and you will have already ruined your reputation. If it's because your parents don't' like him and you are rebelling, ,that's an equally bad reason.
Second, WHY is he an outcast? Is he immoral, lacking in character and integrity, or just not running with your "popular" crowd because he thinks for himself and doesn't want any part of being like everyone else in the clique? That's a good reason to be an outcast, and a good reason to love him.
Maybe you should get away from all your friends who are encouraging you to ditch him; maybe you should listen to them. Only you know for sure.
2006-12-01 10:42:01 · answer #2 · answered by Wiser1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you could help his reputation...how can you help him fit in. Don't leave him JUST because he's not popular. That would be pretty shallow!!
2006-12-01 10:38:36 · answer #3 · answered by jabbergirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It REALLY shouldn't matter what everyone else thinks. If you like him STAY with him
2006-12-01 10:36:52 · answer #4 · answered by GO SOONERS!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what do you care what other people think?
screw that..do what's in your heart and rise above other people's opinion of you or him
2006-12-01 10:37:24 · answer #5 · answered by Tek ~aka~Legs! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay witt him if u love him...so wat he aint popular why should that matter..n if ur friends cant see that u love him n understand that then they aint true friends
2006-12-01 10:39:00 · answer #6 · answered by babyboi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get over yourself.
2006-12-01 10:37:48 · answer #7 · answered by jen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋