this guy i like i just found out he is a dad but he isnt married and doesnt have a girlfriend is he off limits
2006-12-01 02:29:13 · 13 answers · asked by valreemariecreed 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Unavalible?
Sweet heart he would love the company of a women, its hard to meet people when you single raising a child.
2006-12-01 02:42:52 · answer #1 · answered by James J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, he may not be off limits, but you may not want him for a boyfriend if he isn't financially supporting his child ad making visits with the baby and being a good father. That also means he has to see his ex girlfriend frequently, and you have to be okay with that. . You want a responsible boyfriend, right? If he and the baby's mother are no longer an "item" I guess he's not off limits, but why not look around for another guy who doesn't have a child to worry about? Someone who isn't out there making babies with people he doesn't want to marry, for instance.
2006-12-01 10:36:03 · answer #2 · answered by Wiser1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, that depends on what he intend to do about the situation. Some people use the child or children to get back into the relationship and try to make it work. Is he going to stay out the previous relationship and just take care of his responsibilities or is he going to try and work things out with the child's mother? As long as he choose to stay out the relationship and is not seeing anyone else, then he is available. However, now that he found out this bit of news, you need to ask yourself if you are willing to take on his new baggage and the fact that the child's mother will be a part of your relationship if you choose to have one. It can be quite a load to deal with when having an ex in the middle. Good luck to you. Be sure to seriously think about it all before you make that step.
2006-12-01 10:40:28 · answer #3 · answered by killerlegs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's not off limits, but remember that you would be sharing some of his responsibilties as well. if he has a kid (even if you two are just dating) then you have a kid. he may not be legally responsible but you go through some to the same things. and don't forget, he will most likely be dealing with his ex as well. just stand by him and trust him.
2006-12-01 10:33:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it doesn't unless he thinks so. I would recommend however, that you do some thinking before starting a relationship with someone who already has a child. It is a huge responsibility and a lot different from dating a "childless" person.
2006-12-01 10:34:31 · answer #5 · answered by Sweetteach 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unavailable?? Only during the midnight feedings, the diaper changes and pediatrician visits. ;)
2006-12-01 10:31:48 · answer #6 · answered by Catie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm a single dad....And no he is definitely not off limits...
2006-12-01 10:37:20 · answer #7 · answered by djjjc11 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope, as long as he isnt married or in another relationship
2006-12-01 10:32:49 · answer #8 · answered by Jon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it might just mean that he had a child with another woman and that itdidnt work out for them
2006-12-01 10:31:51 · answer #9 · answered by babygurl89 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No this can be a great experience for you if you don't have kids
2006-12-01 10:32:42 · answer #10 · answered by Micka 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋