i like this girl at chruch her name is jessica she is 15 i am 17 last time chruch done. i want to pick up a book she was there whit some firends. but that i look at her she look at me and she start playing whit her hair alot when i look at her. but the think is i dont know her much
2006-12-01 02:23:20 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Welcome to love!!
I think that's nice.
Do you want to make the next step? It is fairly obvious she likes you otherwise she wouldn't look at you and play with her hair(a sign of nervousness).
If you want to get to know her, you need to take the initiative
and speak to her.
Next time you are at church, why not smile as you walk by and just say "hi".
Try to do this a couple of times you are at church until you can get the courage to go up and speak to her.
When you feel the time is right, just say "Hi, my name is _ _ _ _
and I have been coming here for _ _ _ years now - how about you? Just try smalltalk. Don't waffle on and talk too much about yourself. Ask her questions about what school she attends, what town she lives in, does she like coming to church, etc.
This is getting to know someone.
After a while, you may even be able to have enough courage to ask her out for a coffee(maybe after church) or invite her to a function the church is having on - say a music concert or something.
Take it slow and gradually you will get to know her more.
If her parents allow her to date, then ask her out on a date.
Good luck! :)
2006-12-01 02:31:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can start by saying hi or hello.... since she's 15 she's too shy to initiate a conversation if she keep playing with her hair. Try asking her about your church since that's what you have in common. Hope this helps..good luck
2006-12-01 10:27:53 · answer #2 · answered by Terry Chan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask her out, and say youd like to get to know her better... plain and simple really but you gotta come off nice and confident but not cocky! good luck
2006-12-01 10:26:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her out on a date and get to know her then maybe you guys will be more than friends
2006-12-01 10:26:21 · answer #4 · answered by Molly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you won't ever know her if you don't try speaking to her..and speak to her don't type because you need help spelling and typing from the looks of it
2006-12-01 10:25:42 · answer #5 · answered by Tek ~aka~Legs! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for her!!!
there wont be a tomorrow!!
2006-12-01 10:25:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋