My man did not get me anything for my birthday and I am pissed. He knew since The first of November that it was comin and now that it is finally here I did not get ****. Then he got the nerve to get mad cause my ex boyfriend got me sumtin and took me out to eat, saying I was cheating on him.
2006-12-01 02:11:06 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Here is the deal, I think it is pretty crappy that he didn't get you anything, but it also seems like you were expecting it. The problem is that you put your hope and trust in this, and it came up a failure. Just know that your man is imperfect, as we all are. We make mistakes and let people down. But you didn't make it any better by going out to eat with your ex, that is really bad. He is an ex for a reason. Guys are very protective and when you do something like that, it doesn't solve the problem. Two wrongs don't make a right, and you need to do some soul searching in my mind.
2006-12-01 02:35:10 · answer #1 · answered by Light Bringer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long have you been with your current boyfriend?
And it's not about getting presents... but did he do anything special for you? Did you not notice?
Do you think maybe HE might have planned to take you to dinner, but you made plans with your ex instead? That might have made me mad.
Men don't pay attention to dates. The quicker you deal with this, the better off you will be in the long run. They also don't usually get hints... if you wanted something, he probably needed to be told. Sorry, but to men, dates are just numbers on a calendar and they don't remember.
2006-12-01 02:14:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did you accept going out with an ex boyfriend? It was wrong of your husband not to get you anything but I think you made a bad choice when you went out with an ex. No wonder your husband got mad!
2006-12-01 02:17:45 · answer #3 · answered by Eileen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he couldnt afford anything! And being a man (excuse me guys), if you dont remind them they forget. And I think that you going out to dinner with your ex was your way of getting back at him, and your playing games. Because if you had any feelings for your current boyfriend you wouldnt have gone out with an ex boyfriend. If all your looking for is presents, than maybe you shouldnt be in a relationship with any one person.
2006-12-01 02:24:32 · answer #4 · answered by soporific2u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it depends, how long have you been together? Maybe he wasn't sure on the rules of birthday/christmas gifts early in a relationship or maybe he's just a jerk. I guess you'll have to weigh the pros and cons.
But Happy Birthday Anyway!
2006-12-01 02:14:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him u snooze u looze or just say u were completely bored out of your mind waiting around for him to take u..and it was only a friendship date..if he was so concerned why?..wasnt he man enough to ask first... Maybe u have been separated for 12 years like me..im not going to judge u didnt see the wifey on your name.
How is eating at a restaurant cheating?
2006-12-01 02:13:16 · answer #6 · answered by dreamy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Typical man cant be bothered and then wonders why you get mad!
You have every right to be pissed and i would tell him exactly why you are pissed with him in no uncertain terms
2006-12-01 02:15:30 · answer #7 · answered by bodecia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u r rite about the present but i think u shouldn't of went for dinner with ur ex in a situation like this
2006-12-01 02:16:27 · answer #8 · answered by ~ Helin ~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you are the kind who dropped 100 hints along the way, maybe he got sick of being treated like a wallet.
2006-12-01 02:13:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like your married, if you are you have every right to be pissed off! if he's your bf, it depends on how long you've been going out, longer than a month, and it's NO EXCUSE!
2006-12-01 02:18:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋