me and my girlfriend have been going out for about a year and some months. and we were haveing money problems. so she went to college close to home and i got a job offshore. this is my first long trip away from her and i thought i was doing good. ive have been gone from september to now. the boat hasn't even reached the doc yet. but i can't get ahold of my girlfrind and my family is telling that she is never home anymore. she is a spoiled brat but i've been doing my best to show her that every thing does not go her way all the time whithout loseing her. but we've been going out for a year and a half and now this. should i keep her or give her the boot.
2006-12-01 01:45:45 · 21 answers · asked by mitch 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
mitch~
hold your own dude.
the reality is, that distance will show the real character of a person. IT will make the heart fonder or faulter. No middle ground.
If she is "no good" then take the time to cut those ties, clean it up, settle up with your folks and get a storage unit and ship out dude. Save that money up in a great savings account and take only seasonal shipping jobs and head back to school yourself.
Trust me you can make a BUTT load of money with a degree and shipping experience! I know several 25 yr olds that are 2nd mates with degrees making over $72k a year. They ship only 6-8 months a year... can you imagine that????
Don't spoil the rotton. Don;t be angery, take it as a lesson learned. You already know in you heart the answer is clear.
Be free to grow. Best wishes
2006-12-01 01:53:49 · answer #1 · answered by Denise W 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, booting her is a good idea. I guess you'll have to understand that her being a spoiled brat, which is fine by me, will cause her to go wherever she frigging wants, that's completely unfortunate if you want a stable girlfiend and so unfortunately, she's the wrong choice.
She's probably cute and you probably thought her attitude was kinda cute in a naughty way, unfortunatley the naughty way usually takes-over with people like her.
Um, if you can't reach her you shouldn't bother. She's all over the place and then some. You need tofind someone understanding.
2006-12-01 09:56:26 · answer #2 · answered by Michal A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you know how many women deal with a guy who won't even work? She should be happy that you are willing to leave family and friends to help make your lives better. My dad married a spoiled brat and no matter what he does she's never happy. He works 6 days a week, she's never worked, he gives her money constantly, it's never enough. They have been married for 25 years and she's putting him in an early grave. You'll never be able to please a spoiled brat find someone worthy of your love and hardwork. Trust me there are tons of women who would love to love you.
2006-12-01 09:56:46 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why settle? You should have a woman who is missing you and excited to see you when you come home. You cannot change people and bustin your behind to make her happy materialisticly is just going to allow her behavior. Don't give so much to someone that doesnt appreciate your effort.. By the time that girl comes along you'll be scorned.
2006-12-01 09:53:14 · answer #4 · answered by Tammy G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her the boot. Sounds like she was running around with some college boys while you were away.
2006-12-01 09:48:35 · answer #5 · answered by inlovewow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
...the boot....seriously if you are trying to make money and keep the relationship going but she just wants 2b a spoiled brat...then she really doesnt deserve ya...if it was me the ***** would meet boot..lol...
something is only as good as you want it to be....if she doesnt want it good and all she wants is a money man to make it so she can spend it and do what she wants...then it aint worth your time,,,
...whats sad is that she took advantage of you, she went off to college and you get to go to work...seems like you lost out on that one....
...hope it works out or she meets boot....
xoxox
emily
...id like to know what u decide tho.
2006-12-01 09:51:51 · answer #6 · answered by ♥ Emily ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her the boot. make it a size 15. Even if it don't fit you.
2006-12-01 09:50:48 · answer #7 · answered by . 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you answered your own question. if you haven't even reached the dock yet...Just wait and see what happens. People move on in life. Don't take it personal. Move on too...
2006-12-01 09:51:18 · answer #8 · answered by Steph 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give her the boot because of you keep her and marry her then you'll always have money problems and you'll always be in debt
2006-12-01 09:50:11 · answer #9 · answered by *Sweet_Kisses* 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she shuld be trying to get a hold of you
give her the boot
2006-12-01 09:51:34 · answer #10 · answered by none 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋