Even tho I am his longest girlfriend EVER. And how can I still keep him as a friend (if he does dump me ) so he can continue to help me ? How can I remain in such a trepiditious relationship (even tho he says he wants to marry me ) ?
2006-12-01 01:43:21 · 17 answers · asked by Kendra H 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He had alot of one night stands.
2006-12-01 01:51:35 · update #1
If you're bf says he's dumped 2500 girls... he's full of $hit.
2006-12-01 01:46:14 · answer #1 · answered by bill m 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he keeps threatening to dump you and uses the reasoning that he's dumped 2500 other girls before you, he obviously has no respect for you or your feelings. Here's a thought...dump him and let him see how it feels! Then go and find yourself a nice, respectful guy who knows how to make you feel good about yourself. You deserve so much more!
Good luck!
2006-12-01 10:56:59 · answer #2 · answered by LindaLou 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, if he claims to have dumped 2500 girls, i would not believe that. secondly, if he keeps threatening to dump you, dump his ***. when he threatens you, he is feeling powerful. take that out of his hands. you do not need a loser like that. kick his butt to the curb. why would you even want a "friend" like that? i wouldn't care if he wanted to marry, he is using his threat to keep you. what an idiot. him, not you. i think you should be done with him. p.s. if he's had a lot of one night stands, do not put yourself in jeopardy. you do not know what he is carrying around in his body. the only safe sex is to take a st. joseph's aspirin, put it between your knees and don't let it drop. don't give him a chance to mess up anything more for you.
2006-12-01 09:50:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
who dates 2500 people? what is he, 150 yrs old and an ex athlete? does he do nothing esle but chase women? this man can't have a job or a life outside of serial dating. he needs to get over himself and you need to stop believing that lie. he's telling you that so you can jump through hoops trying to please him. leave him girl. that's mental and emotional abuse. you can't make someone live you and it's not worth killing yourself to be with someone who obviously is not going to commit himself to anyone no matter what they do. dump him and make sure you get tested because that's disgusting. that fact that he told you he dump that many women should tell you he's only out for what he can get from them and that's it. find yourself a good man and don't think twice about him, he's not worth it. he dumped 2500 women, puhleeze. he doesn't even know 2500 women.
2006-12-01 10:29:51 · answer #4 · answered by NoDeal21 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he wants to marry you then he loves you? if in fact he does love you then you should sit down with him and tell him how he makes you feel... "when you say _______, it makes me feel ______" or "i feel _____ when you _____" in some sort of format like that... that way he knows he is hurting you by what he says or does... and if he is going to be threatening to break up with you and you haven't done something completely wrong... then you don't deserve that... he shouldn't think that he is better than you... you should both be on the same level... that is what a relationship is all about... working together... you're a unit... it shouldn't be a competition... it should be a partnership... and if that friendship, trust, honesty, love isn't there... then you don't have much of a relationship and maybe this isn't what you really want for the rest of your life...
2006-12-01 09:48:45 · answer #5 · answered by YourBrownEyedGirl 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I can't even imagine needing someone that much. What exactly does he do for you. I would work on building your self worth and unload this guy. Doesn't sound like a relationship to build anything on except misery. Bolt.
2006-12-01 09:48:08 · answer #6 · answered by june clever 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this for real?! This guy sounds like a total loser and if you are with him, it sounds as if you have some major personal issues that you need to work on.
2006-12-01 09:45:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think you should give him the chance to dump you and you should just dump him and get it over with he sounds like a dog to me
2006-12-01 09:46:39 · answer #8 · answered by angie f 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Screw him if he threatens to dump you all the time. it seems like he's pretty controlling over you anyway. MOVE ON!!
2006-12-01 09:46:58 · answer #9 · answered by Bee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be cautious, he can dump you as well so .. either be assertive or forget him... unless you want to dump him and enjoy with someone else....
2006-12-01 09:46:44 · answer #10 · answered by Pankaj K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋